You waited all of your desperate lives for that speacial guy to come along the angel from above(so to speak) and he never showed up so you finally settled down at the age 29 and married the father of your kid(s) and 3 years later all of a sudden the guy of your dreams come along and sweep you of your feet.The guy your been having in your fantisies all these years. He just had all the traits you look for in a man that your husband did'nt posses. But you husband was a good man. How would you handle this situation LADYS..
2006-07-27 14:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by Troubled son 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to let you know not all women feel desperate nor are they ready to settle down. This scenario that you speak of only happens to people that don't truly believe in God. I for one am waiting on whoever God has planned for me in my life. But in the mean time I am soooo busy that I really don't feel alone. That's how he works!! I know that he is here to care and comfort me during this time.....that's why I haven't gone off the "Deep In" like most women do who are without a Man!!! I think this question is a set up to see what all the desperate women would say and they didn't let you down!! God will give us options, we just have to have faith and be smart enough to know what to choose. Either we wait patiently until he sends us someone or we continue to be hard headed!!! I am certain that if I continue to wait, he will not let me down!! So if that's what your implying?? There is no such thing as him making a mistake!!, us a humans just have to pray for his will!!!
Be Blessed!!
2006-07-28 19:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd stay with my husband. Because just because some guy I may of waited my life for has suddenly showed up doesn't mean I'm stopping my life for him. If he really were the man of my dreams he'd have been here at sooner instead of showing up like a home wrecker.
2006-07-27 21:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if i knew for a fact that he was the love of my life i might go with him, if i didn't have kids with the first husband, if the first husband is good to the kids and a good person, why change things....it's about the kids future (if there is any)....but if there was no kids i might go with the love of my life...
2006-07-27 21:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by pshh =] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...there's no such thing as dream boy!!!i rather choose the GOOD MAN than to live in fantasies w/ the DREAM BOY...DREAM BOYS are like reflection of someone in a water...they are just but a REFLECTION not a REAL one.
2006-07-27 21:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll stick with my husband... B'coz of my kids...
2006-07-27 21:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by mIsErY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll have fun who have to know
i wont tell if you wont
2006-07-27 21:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋