should i have sex even if im only 14?

Answer 1

You better protect yourself because if you are asking this question you have already made up your mind to do it.

Answer 2

I'm not going to put you down for wanting to have sex, my first time was 15 and I didn't turn out to be a bad person, and have no kids to this day, but anything is possible and you could end up being a parent... So make sure you are ready for all the 'possible' situations that could come up in the future... Don't rush into anything you are unsure about! Honestly, if you are asking on here about our opinions if you should have sex or not, you probably are feeling alittle insecure about the whole situation... You will know when you are ready and then it wont matter what anyone thinks of you!

Answer 3

i think the same thing cause im gonna be 14 in 2 weeks. i really want to, but i am going to wait it out. i mean, if you do everything right away at an early age, there isnt going to be much to get excited about when youre old enough to live on your own and get married and stuff because youve already done mostly everything. but when youre older and more responsible and have more knowledge about this kind of stuff, you wont have worries about getting pregnant or having an STD because you waited until a time when sex for the first time will be a great experience, and not full of worries and getting in trouble if your parents found out.

Answer 4

No, everyone that does regrets it!
Curiosity or sudden urges are not reason enough. It really does detract from the total fabulousness that you could really experience. It is worth it to wait until your body and your brain and your mind are mature. Making love is for adults.
What I didn't understand when I was young was that is not advised for teens just because of pregnancy or std risks, there is so much emotional that is affected. Your brain is still forming, you don't know what life is yet, there are literally things that a young mind is not capable of grasping. One needs to get a hold of one's self before you entwine with another, for however briefly. You could get your soul hurt. You hinder your ability to give your body over for the true pleasure when the time comes. You eventually can work your way towards it though, but why cheat yourself of the ecstasy that comes when you and your right man are ready! (believe me you do not want a clumsy, selfish boy toying with you) Try looking at it not as if you are refraining and denying yourself now, but that you are looking forward to the reward from growing and preparing.

Answer 5

Have it only if YOU want to, not because others want. Boys are always willing to have sex. However, at your age, I would advice to wait. Almost ALL girls that have sex at a young age, end up regreting it deeply, and I mean DEEPLY, because for a girl sex is much more than physical pleasure, it's about a special moment that you share with someone special. For boys it's just pure sex, they'll just seek you for the sex you give them, not for what you are. And don't forget (if you don't know it yet) that men tell their buddies who they sleep with, so EVERYONE will quickly know that you are "available" and "willing".

I would strongly advise to wait, until you decide that you want to give the most precious thing you have to someone that will trully appreciate it. Try to do it with someone that is special for you, I'm sure you won't regret it and you'll remember it all your life as something beautiful, even if you didn't end up marrying that guy (which is most likely what will happen).

Good luck and don't rush!

Answer 6

Are you ready to be a mommy and get a job and continue school and pay a mortgage and lightbills and get a car and buy insurance and food and cable and phone bill? If yes, sure....go ahead..... If NO... then you are not ready....

Only play if you are prepared to pay!

You are only 14. Concentrate on your education and staying HIV, desease FREE. You will have plenty of years to fool around when you know what you are doing.

Besides, sex is not all it's cracked up to be and women dont hit their sexual peak until late 20's. Why do it now and risk getting deseased?

Answer 7

Well,it's against the law, so not really. Is a boy pressuring you to have sex? If you're asking if you should, then you're not ready. The law is there to protect you. Never have sex cos you feel pressured, boys will tell you they love you just to get you to have sex with them. You are ready when you totally trust the boy, you can talk openly about contraception with each other, you know he will respect you and not pressure you to do anything you don't want to, and will think of your needs as well as his own.

Answer 8

your only 14 so you are still very young, i reckon do it if she is older and if she has had sex before. you dont want to be a daddy at 14. and if its just a one night thing you will be a champion. but do not do it if she is a vergin. you dont want to f*** up her life.

Answer 9

Ask yourself... Could you take care of a child...
That usually should be the answer to the question.
Can you afford to take care of yourself, and another being.. or just yourself?
No.
because you have not even finished your high school education.
The younger you are when you have intercourse, the higher risk you are at for STD's, etc...

Answer 10

I lost my virginity when I was 14. I regret it. So the answer is NO. Don't do it. Save yourself for the right one, not the one right now.

Answer 11

are you trying to start a family at 14?