The wedding is in August, the ceremony is in the afternoon outside and then the reception is at a hall. It's my husbands cousin...what should I wear? I've heard not to wear white...is it ok to wear white if it's just your top? I was going to wear a grey skirt with white stripes...so white is the only thing that I think would go? My Husband wants to wear shorts...I've tried to tell him it's not ok any opinions?
2006-07-27 13:50:48 · 25 answers · asked by Me 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
a nice summery chiffon dress. sorta like the one u can have on ur avater.
2006-07-27 13:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by @ |* ! @ n @ ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The point against wearing white is you're not supposed to look like the bride. So, if your dress is only partially white, you'll be ok. If it's a non traditional wedding, then you can probably get away with it, anyway. If your skirt is gray with white pinstripes, you can wear absolutely anything with that. Red, purple, lavender, deep blue, these are things I think look especially good in that combination. If you really want to wear a white blouse to stay cool, you can, particularly if you put bright jewelery with it. Just don't wear an all white dress.
If it's a summer afternoon, it'll be acceptable to be a little more casual, but shorts are pushing it. He should probably wear light pants and a shirt and tie. He can probably ditch the tie at the reception.
2006-07-27 20:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd ask your husband's parents or sister what they are wearing.
Since the wedding is outside, it wouldn't be blasphemous to wear shorts- IF THE WEDDING IS TOTALLY CASUAL! If the
wedding is not casual, he can get away with dockers.
You, on the other hand should be able to wear your outfit. I think you're not supposed to wear all-white. Some all-white dresses look too much like wedding dresses.
I have been to summer weddings where it was fine to wear shorts. Very, very casual. -- Check with the inlaws who know the cousin, they'll give you sound advice. Ask the cousin!~
If your husband insists on wearing shorts, you can't change it.
Go anyway. As long as you don't wear them, you won't be judged.
Have a great time!
2006-07-27 14:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't wear white. Try a grey linen shirt or blouse. Shorts are a definite no-no, as are flip-flops or men's sandals. An open toe pump or sling back is okay for women shoes.
Rule of thumb is that a wedding is a formal occasion. Stay as formal as the couple are having it. It doesn't sound like a white tie affair, so, I would think a linen dress or suit with a jacket is appropriate.
2006-07-27 13:55:14 · answer #4 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several rules about dressing up when you attend a function such as a wedding:
(1) you should not out-dress your host or prime guest
(2) you should follow the dress code as stated in the invitation
(3) you should try to avoid "ethnic" or "cultural" dress as this draws attention to you and not to the bride and groom
(4) pay attention to the colours especially - and white is fine, easy to match with shoes and accessories.
If your husband wears shorts, this is OK is the groom also wears shorts. Else both of you with be the pariahs of the party.
Is your husband a dog?
2006-07-27 13:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if the wedding is, formal, semi formal or casual. The only way it is acceptably to wear shorts to a wedding is if it is "casual dress" (MOST ARE NOT) If you are wearing gray and white thats fine, but dont wear a white dress! If this is a semi-formal wedding tell your man to at least wear dress pants and if hes really uncomfortably to change into shorts for the reception!
2006-07-27 13:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't wear shorts. I was at a wedding this month which was also outside, the men were still in pants but wore short sleeved dress shirts. I think you should be fine with gray and white. I was going to suggest just a sundress or nice skirt and shirt. Maybe add a colored necklace or purse. You should be fine.
2006-07-27 13:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by stowchick01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with some poster's responses. White is not appropriate for a wedding as a rule, the bride wears white. Black is not appropriate, it's for a funeral. Bright red is not appropriate as it's too flashy (not good for summer anyway). You would be fine with a gray skirt and white top, as it's not all white, but a pretty summer dress would be more appropriate.
Gay guy's opinion here.
2006-07-27 16:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We had a summer wedding and it was hot. I told everyone informal on the invitation because I didnt want them sweating to death. Most of the women wore really nice summer dresses and the men wore shorts. A white shirt with a skirt is good.
2006-07-27 13:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a colorful but not gaudy sleeveless little dress just above the knees and take a light jacket that can be worn over. Have your husband wear pants and a button down short sleeve shirt...and take shorts with him for later. This is common now...but not at the actual wedding.
2006-07-27 13:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by maynerdswife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a dress code specified in the invitation?
Regardless, your husband shouldn't even wear shorts, weddings are formal gatherings. He should wear something with at least a tie.
For you, I suggest a nice flowing summer dress. Probably accesorize with a shawl.
We went to one this summer, that's what I wore. And the plus side, it's going to be on TFC's Extreme Weddings, air date is Feb. 14 :)
2006-07-27 13:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by princess consuela banana hammock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋