2006-07-27 13:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think some people are.
2006-07-27 13:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is great that you are into bondage! It is a great lifestyle. Do not let people that haven't tried it before, try it on you. That's what I would do if I were you. A real master, or top, will know to find out your limits...... and not to do what that guy did. The first few months really, is finding out what your limits are, what you are/are not into, setting rules/standards etc etc. To go past your limits, without your concent, is qualified as abuse. Don't let it happen. While "punishment" PUSHES your limits, they should never be fully broken unless you agree that breaking the limits is a punishment.
I am dominant and have been into it for about 4 years. Not that long but long enough to gain some experience and learn a good bit. I am involved in a BDSM group in my area (Tucson AZ) and I highly recommend that if you have one in your area you go, at least for the discussions. Be careful, some see our kink as abuse still when really it isn't. It is consentual between two adults. Most not involved with the lifestyle get confused.
BDSM is an art, and a way of life. I am very much dominant. However I did try being submissive. While it was great that I learned the "other sides point of view" and that I learned many new techniques, being submissive is not for me. To each their own!
How long have you been into this?
If you are not near anyone that posts to this question, and you want to get a partner, check out sites like http://www.alt.com , or http://www.bondage.com , and others to find what / who you are looking for. Otherwise do searches in google/ask for "BDSM in (your area)." That will show up some groups, or at least normally some will pop-up.
If you need to know anything else feel free to email me at master_mike_81@yahoo.com or via messenger at master_mike_81. Take care, and good luck in the lifestyle, whether a new fetish or one you are trying to grow upon!
2006-07-29 04:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by master_mike_81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, got the handcuffs in my nightstand. Haven't been able to find the rope after my last move...gotta get the hardware store.
2006-07-27 20:52:44 · answer #3 · answered by letum_ante_dedecus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.....too much history there, bondage just didn't work out for me and my ppl :)
2006-07-31 01:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by cub6ib9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the responses so far, the answer appears to be yes. Even if the other answers weren't there, I would still answer yes. ;-) Indeed, I might be able to answer yes in the present. ;-)
2006-07-27 22:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Ѕємι~Мαđ ŠçїєŋŧιѕТ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like it? I Love it! Can't get enough of it! Last time was...Monday night!
2006-07-28 01:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try it in a heartbeat but never have yet.
2006-07-27 20:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by teddybar67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try duct tape and if that does'nt work J.B. weld!
2006-07-27 20:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Msquared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds hot but never done it
2006-07-27 20:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never done it ,but we can try....ok
2006-07-27 21:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋