I met this guy online. I sent him pictures and he told me how gorgeous I was and how good I looked in the pictures. I met him in person, and I thought that we had a nice time, and he concluded the date telling me to call him. I sent him a text message thanking him for the dinner. I have yet to hear from him. When I met him, his subscription was expiring, so shortly after contact, I was not able to view his profile. Today, I noticed that his profile was back up. I am taking that as a bad sign. What should I do?
2006-07-27 13:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
have you actually called him? A text is not calling. Maybe he didn't get the text and is thinking the same thing you are but about you "she never called" then again it may be a bad sign... it's not always a good idea to meet guys online.
2006-07-27 13:35:25 · answer #1 · answered by weebles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take it as a bad sign. Isn't it usual for a guy to tell a girl to call him rather than asking her permission to call her? When you texted him thanking him for dinner, he should have replied, either by inviting you out again or just to thank you for your message. It's simple politeness. I think this silence is ominous. He must contact you if he wishes to see you again. Do not pursue him, you will only seem desperate and you will hate yourself for it.
2006-07-27 20:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a couple of days. Some men are slow to respond. Some won't or don't know how to be a gentleman and express " I'm not that interested". or maybe his gold fish drowned and he is in mourning : ( His actions or non actions are not a reflexion on you.
2006-07-27 21:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by JR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is interested in you then he will find a way to contact you, believe me. If not, then find someone better who thinks you are amazing and can't get you out of their head.
2006-07-27 20:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by philsoc3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try another text message, and if you get no response to it, then you know it just isn't going to work.
Time to just write it off.
2006-07-27 20:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...give it two more days and he'll probably respond. I ran into this problem too. Even if we had a good time, it doesn't mean one will not keep their options open
2006-07-27 20:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by esko1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text message is not a call
2006-07-27 20:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she ask him whats up and he shouldn't have been such a pussy for not tellin you it won't work out or whatever it maybe...
2006-07-27 20:34:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. if he wants to contact you he will. get on with your life
2006-07-27 20:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by jason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably , find someone else
2006-07-27 20:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Goat T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋