well my bf always want to do sexual stuff and i really dont what should i do he knows when to stop tho... and it feel good...lol but im tryina wait til marriage
2006-07-27 13:24:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by your question your already doing some foreplay as you said it felt good... so make sure it doesnt go any farther.... keep it to foreplay... masturbation no penatration... that will keep both happy.. have fun
2006-07-27 13:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh..ok..i get that, so he wants to have sex with you before marriage? hmm..and you want to wait untill yuo get married with him. you see, maybe your bf shoud realise that sex is not only the only way of 'communicating" with you. there are loads of way to feel you and to make him feel better. he can always talk you, understand you much better, take you around..or maybe some hugs and kisses will do. a good guy, will never force a sex on you and will always respect your wish on it.so go ahead, and tell him what you feel. remember to stick with your points. and then you see if he really deserves you.you will understand if he is the man for you or a man for sex..
2006-07-27 20:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by chandni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT TILL MARRIAGE!! thats my belief. also, i believe that feelings should be based on presence not contact, if you know what i mean. is just being in the same room good enuf? or do you have to be on top of eachother? if your looking for love, keep lookin. follow your heart is what i say, oh and yeah - dump the guy.
2006-07-27 20:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by achilles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're trying to wait until you're married, then you don't need to let things go as far as you have. Once you get to a certain point, it's almost impossible to say "NO".... Your boyfriend is going to keep on pushing until you say yes, or he's going to go find someone else to satisfy him. Just be prepared for that.
2006-07-27 20:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, he's a guy. Guys are geared towards sex. It's normal. But it doesn't mean you have to engage in any type of sexual activity if you aren't ready.
And yes, of course it feels good. It's supposed to.
If he respects you, he will respect your wishes and not force the issue. But don't expect him to stop trying, but tell him not to expect you to give in, either.
2006-07-27 20:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait in till marrige, but if it gets worse, mabey spend some time alone. Do what feels right.
2006-07-27 20:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by xX_-ArexYouxDeadxYetx-_Xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling him no and keep making him respect your limits. So far it sounds like he is so appreciate that fact.
You aren't going to make him stop wanting to though. So just hang in there kid.
2006-07-27 20:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur boyfriend loves u he'll be a gently man and understand that u want to wait untill marraige or untill u think ur ready
2006-07-27 20:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by khadeeja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him ur not into the whole sex thing until u get married and if he really loves u he'll understand
2006-07-27 20:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by 2sweet2forget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til marriage. if he doesnt stop, kick him in the nuts
2006-07-27 20:28:18 · answer #10 · answered by n0h0pe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋