I think Im too needy in relationships. At first, things are great, then the spark slowly dies off (something I must be doing/must not be doing), then one day she doesn't want to date but instead be friends. I don't really get jealous (unless she's flirting with other guys in front of me or something) and I don't call 24/7. This isn't with one particular girl, but with relaionships in general. I don't know exactly what Im doing wrong but I know it's me....how can I avoid this? How can I not be needy?
2006-07-27 12:52:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats up?
You are not being too needy? Of course every one needs there own space but there is time that you need to be with your significant other also. The times when females want to hang out with there friends instead of being with you is easy to handle. Don't sweat over it, you just go plan a good time with your friends. Because there are going to be some nights when you need to be with your friends instead of with her. So don't think so much of it. Some girls aren't just use to boys always thinking about them and wanting to be with and love them unconditionally so just hang in there and stay strong!
2006-07-31 10:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Frankie D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be too quick to get jealous. What do you consider flirting? The girl may feel like you are not that in to her because you don't call just to say hi, good morning or whatever. And maybe she feels like you are too hard to please... You should ask them where you went wrong or what some of your bad qualities are. That way you can look at yourself from someone else's perspective. Hope this helps!
2006-07-27 12:58:44 · answer #2 · answered by brainznbooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off u r so not needy... believe me sparks eventually die in every realitionship... but heres my advice... spice things up by like doin something romantic wit da girl.. like taking her somewhere nice or something. u don't need to have alot of money. maybe just have a pinic at da park or something. just use ur thought. treat everyday like u just met her. call and be like " i miss u" if u miss her or things like tha. are surprise her... surprises are alwayz and i mean alwayz nice dis way u don't get predictable and u still have da spark cuz she never noes wut to expect from u... so yea good luck.
2006-07-27 13:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by simply keshia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a lot of space...let her know you are okay when are not with her 24/7...then she will be the one who is needy.
some girls are like cats, they will come to you when they want your attention and when they want their own space, they will turn away from you.
2006-07-27 12:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
menb i think u just dont care 4 anyone u have known or u just forget
2006-07-27 13:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by pamela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋