why is it that beautiful attractive women have a hard time finding a man.?

Question

I am in my last year of college and I am not currently in a relationship. I have not had a bf since Sept 26, 2006. I have had men approach me throughout the day when I am visible in the public eyes. The first thing men say is where your man at and I tell them that I dont have anybody and they think I am lying but I am not. I guess men think that all beautiful woman are taken which is not so. Besides, I think men want to run out with the trashy woman first then want to settle down with a good woman after they have whored around and that's not fair bc we have to wait. and sometimes good girls ends up with bad diseases bc men. What makes us different and why we cant have anybody.

oops. Sept 26, 2005, sorry.

Answer 1

feel srry for ya

Answer 2

I have read about this issue. Men have a fear of rejection that causes them to gravitate towards ugly women. The logic is that if they make a pass at an ugly woman and she tells the to get lost, no damage is done to their ego because she was, after all, ugly, so it is no big loss. On the other hand, if they make a pass at a beautiful woman and she tells them to get lost it is a crushing defeat because way down deep inside they wanted to be accepted by this beauty. With the ugly it does not matter.

The result is the ugly women get all the dates and the beautiful ones sit home and cry.

I am not making this up.

Answer 3

Beautiful women do not have a hard time getting a man. It's the ugly women that do.
The reason that you are not in a relation is because you have to offer what the men
are looking for. they like a woman with money, to fulfill their sex dreams, an ugly woman so that another man will not tread on their territory, a woman with a nice car,
a woman that has other men in their life that they can be in competition with to become
the best, virgin women, christian women they prey on, men want to be the boss. So
if you possess any of these qualities you should have a man. So stay celebate cause
the right one is coming and sweep you off your feet. God bless.

Answer 4

I experience the same thing. I know I am not bad looking. I know guys check me out and crushes on me. No one have the gut to seriously ask me out though. They have the gut to flash me stalk me, but they don't have the gut to ask me out. This guy kept walk around me in circle and won't come up and talk to me. (it was weird) I told one of friends(male, not so close) that I don't have a boyfriend(i just broke up), and he doesn't believe me! why do i want lie about not having a boyfriend!? anyway, I understand your frustration. One of my other female friend had the same problem. (she is really pretty, and she is a engineer, i guess she is a little intimadating) she told me that once you get a real job(not just interning, coz we are kids in those people's eyes), you will get a chance to meet guys who have enough self confident to date a successful and beautiful woman. You just need to wait for probably one more year?

Answer 5

I am cute which I'm not sure is the same as beautiful. But looking at most women I'm above average and I have a wonderful boyfriend.He works hard and physically so he has a good body and OK money,plus hes handsome and he cooks and loves me to pieces. He loves me for who I am. Maybe you appear to needy? Try to be more casual and more girl next door.Guys like that.And dont try to hide your defects cause thats what they usually like most about you.I'm very clumsy and my BF finds it cute and it amuses him.He wants to buy me a ring so I guess it worked for me.

Answer 6

Wow, Sept 26, 2006? What time zone are you in? :)

Answer 7

lol i understand i was like that too until i found me a good manoh yea and september 26 2006 is not here yet do u mean 2005??

Answer 8

You are intelligent, beautiful and therefore intimidating. You need to find a strong man who can cope with other men staring at you, someone confident enough without being arrogant....

WOW it is hard task. You'll find one though.

Answer 9

THATS BECAUSE MEN KNOW THAT UGli GiRLS ARE TOO UGLi TO HAVE BFS AND THEY KNOW THAT UGlI GiRLS ARE DESPERATE AND THEY'LL DO ANYTHiNG TO GET A MAN AND THEY KNOW BEAUTiFUL ONES ARE NOT WHORES AND THEY LOOK FOR RELATiONSHiPS W/ MEANiNG

Answer 10

Well, i m de 1st in de Q to woo u if u r reali so gd. I won hestitate tats 4 sure. Do contact mi ya

Answer 11

just cause your beautiful u cant be whoring?ive done alot of really nice looking women...deep inside ugly fat beautiful women r all the same...theyll put out for the right guy...which just happens to be me:)