Their is this man that I have been seen for about 1year and a half we stop seeing each other because he said that he was going to work on his marriage he tell me that he think about me all the time, he love and miss me.He tell me that he will call me but he haven't yet.
2006-07-27 12:26:58 · 18 answers · asked by Sunshine53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, this man is stringing you along. He is married but he loves you too? Unless you are living under the same roof and sharing this man with his wife, living a polyamorous lifestyle, you are simply the other woman, there for the man's relief when his wife becomes too much to bear. You were a convenience; the reason he hasn't been calling is that you are no longer convenient. He is going to stay in his marriage, so he doesn't need you anymore. If he told his wife about you, she could very well have said that if he wants to stay married to her, he has to get rid of you. If he didn't tell his wife about you, then he sure as hell doesn't want her to find you. You are a liability, and he has to get rid of you. Either way, you lose.
You've already given him a year and a half of your life. Don't give him any more. You need to find someone who will appreciate and love you no matter what, and doesn't care if the whole world knows it. You are too good a person to be someone else's dirty little secret.
2006-07-27 12:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Bastet's kitten 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is married stay out of it. no-one has right to get in the middle!
Let him work on his marriage, she is the one who has to put up with all of his day to day bull, work with him, live with him, pay bills with him, raise kids with him, you are just "on the side".
Trust me, they very rarely leave their wives, just ask my husband. He dumped his 'other' as soon as i found out and threatened to leave him and take his son.
Go find your own man, leave hers alone. I bet he's told you that they are just living together for the sake of the kids, they are really seperated and sleeping in seperate beds. They fight all the time, she doesn't understand him the way you do. etc.... BULLS**T. He is manipulating you. Forget him and let him sort out his marriage, other wise KARMA will bite you in the but and when you get married some little girl will come and try and steal the love of your life from you, your world will crumble and you will lose all faith in the one you love. don't be selfish, end it. find a single man
2006-07-27 12:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by jenny c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man tells you he loves you but he is married, it means that he is not emotionally available to love someone else. It is bad news to be involved with someone who is already married. If he is going to work on his marrage then you need to respect that and understand that you cannot be involved in this person's life. Even if he loves you, it is cheeting for him to be involved with you while he is still married. Allow some time to recover from this relationship and then begin looking for love from someone who can love you, and only you, completely.
2006-07-27 12:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by onucoqui2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like Aaron Neville sang "Everybody plays the fool, there's no exception to the rule.."
Wake up honey. The gig is over.
2006-07-27 12:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by El Teke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he saying the truth but he is having problems with his wife thats why he didnt call u or maybe he is lying to u just beacause he only wants another girl to be there for him
2006-07-27 12:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A married man!!!! He's about himself. He is not going to call you or nor does he have the time to see you. He's using you, and he hopes you 'don't know it.
2006-07-27 12:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion i think you may just be booty call...sorry to break it down to you!!! If i were you i would ignore him and leave him alone!!!!! You should put on a your favorite sexy outfittt and go out !!! Guys come and go !!! You should never have to wait on a man !!! Your a woman !! WE make them wait!! Trust me in all my life i have never waited on anyone !!!!!!
2006-07-27 12:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by nothing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It simply means, he wants to get laid with you girl. He's married and don't even bother to waste your time on him. Get a decent man =D
2006-07-27 12:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by sharkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what in the sam hill are you doing messing with a married man , good grief, they never leave thier wives, and they shouldnt, you should get a clue and go find a man of your own if you want one............
2006-07-27 15:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your english sucks bass.... it's too bad that you dropped out of the 3rd grade when you did, if you would have stayed you would have learned about grammar.
2006-07-27 12:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋