I'm an asian
but it seems like only asian girls can be attracted to me
how can i attract a white female?
2006-07-27 12:13:48 · 7 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the!? First time I've heard that. Most Asian-American women DON'T like Asian men. Unless you're talking about the Asian-Asian ones, you know, speak English with an accent, only use businesses owned by their own ethnicity... etc.
It depends a lot on where you are. Most non-Asian women where I am (Southern California) don't expect to date Asian men because they think Asian men aren't interested in them (stereotype is Asian men only date Asian women). Once you break that barrier and approach them and show interest, they are actually more receptive than Asian-American women where a large precentage will reject you outright due to your Asian ethnicity.
There's no magic for dating non-Asian women, you just have to try. The usual advice applies:
- Look clean and neat
- Go work out and get an athletic to muscular body (a lot of women don't like to date skinny men that weigh less than they do)
- Increase your social circle to include non-Asians (men & women), team sport is a good way to go
- Learn to dance
- Pick up cool hobbies (surf, kayak, rock climb, play guitar... etc)
- DO NOT be the nice guy, but instead be the fun guy
- And I can't stress enough - go out and make new friends. Best way to meet new people is through friends.
One thing that does apply specifically to Asian men: Don't act too Asian, unless she's specifically looking for an Asian guy (I have heard such women exist, but I personally have never met any). Women are looking for interesting guys that make them laugh and are fun to be with, not Asian guys. So while you shouldn't feel your Asian-ness is a deterrent, it's not exactly a bonus either, don't flaunt it. It's not a bad thing, it just means you have as much chance as the white guy to your left and the Mexican guy to your right.
The most amazing thing I've seen is this Korean dude that barely speaks English, but was surrounded by chicks. They love him. Not because he's Korean, but because he's charming. To this day I still don't know how he managed to charm the girls when he can't even speak a complete sentence in English. He's the man.
Anyway, that's what I know, I'm not an expert, and there's a lot of generalizations in there. You'll need to adjust for specific individuals.
2006-07-27 13:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, give a girl that you are interested in a friendly smile, small talk and then take it from there. After conversating with her, you can some how feel if she is into you or not. If she is not in to you, ask her if she has any friends that are single and looking...
That should work for you. Good luck, and don't try too hard, or it will begin to look as if you are very desperate, just be cool, calm, and collective.
Good luck with your hunt...
2006-07-27 20:07:14 · answer #2 · answered by cherrypopsickle2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just be ur self and be nice to the white girls and if they turn u down there are more white fish in the deep blue sea good luck.
2006-07-27 20:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asian guys are usualy short .I like a guy to be a little taller than me,
2006-07-27 21:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from white devils.
2006-07-27 19:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself .maybe you are trying too hard
2006-07-27 19:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave our birds alone
2006-07-27 19:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋