This guy I met a month ago wouldn't have sex with me cause he said he wanted to prove it wasn't only about sex. Well we finally had sex a week ago and I texted him twice but he never wrote me back or called. About a week later he called and he said his phone was broken and thats why he hasn't talked to me. So was it really broken or did he just want to get into my pants?
2006-07-27 11:57:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry Tiffany, you deserve a lot better than that! If he really wanted to get in touch with you, he would have. Move on and don't waste any more of your wonderful life on him!
2006-07-27 12:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Bingo's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to dog the guy out. But you (women/girls) have to take the responsibility. Guys wouldn't be able to play you if you weren't so darn easy to let him hit the first half hour of meeting him.
You mentioned that he didn't want to have sex until it was proven it wasn't about sex.
Well.....
Where's your self respect and dignity? How do you expect anyone to respect you if you don't respect yourself?
Another fact..He isn't your husband and you're probably too young to be having sex to begin with.
Several consequences for having sex outside of marriage.
1. Contract an STD perhaps HIV.
2. Become pregnant for a dead beat as the sperm donor.
2006-07-27 12:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by WhatEVER27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuses, Excuses! He has a gf and didnt want to risk it with her with you calling him!Besides if he really cared he would have called from any other phone! Face it he's taken and yep he did want to get in your pants and he got his way! It happened and you can't go back to change it so move on because you deserve something better! If he's calling you again its cause he wants to have sex again! Ignore that jackass!
2006-07-27 12:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His phone wasn't broke. He knew that you wanted to have sex with him. He was willing to wait because he knew the wait wasn't going to be long. He got what he wanted so now there isn't much he can say to you. Because he could of made a way to call you. He was just having sex with you he wasn't making love with you.
2006-07-27 12:04:03 · answer #4 · answered by Monie_Luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His phone may have been broken indeed. If he initiated "waiting" for sex, then obviously he cares for you. After you had sex, he didn't have to call you back at all, but he did. The next time you see him, check to see if he has a new phone.
2006-07-27 12:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Kyra B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe he was just trying to get into his pants, an excuse like "My phone was broken" really isn't good enough for me, especially if he has access with the home phone and the computer as well if you two communicate over the computer. His excuse is just not good enough I wouldnt' believe him.
2006-07-27 12:00:14 · answer #6 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry hon, but you have been had, and had good. His phone broke, how often does that occur, rarely enough to be considered impossible, I would think.
And gee, no other phones available, either. None on the street, or his home, his office, his friends, etc. Give me a break.
Dump him, and count your blessings, it wasn't worse.
Just admit, that you learned a valuable lesson, and move on.
2006-07-27 12:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how old are you? That piece of information is crucial.
If you're a teenager, the guy just might be nervous to be around you because he felt like he didn't perform very well.
If you're in your 20's, then yes, that guy was looking to get in your pants and that was a one night stand.
2006-07-27 12:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows,may be it was broken or maybe not...But i think this is the time for you to know if he is serious or not since his phone is working again.
But he should have visited you or maybe he was busy at work or you are living far from each other.
2006-07-27 12:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by LordCEO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say my phone is broken when I dont want to call someone. I hope he wasnt a sleaze like that and do that too you, and if he did, I'm sorry. I'm hoping for your sake it's broken.
2006-07-27 12:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋