I logged on to my boyfriend's e-mailo account to be nosey...and saw that a girl had sent him 2 pictures of her (1 of her face and one of her naked top half w/ he arm covering her nipples) soooo I texted her and asked a few questions....long story short its a chatline and she obviously didnt know about me. I love this guy to death and we live together.... I dont want to end things but what else is there to do?
2006-07-27 11:50:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him stop or leave.
2006-07-27 12:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by juz b in real wit it 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well I don't think it was very smart that you went into your bf's email even if it was just to be nosey. That means you don't trust him. and it's really not love if you don't trust him right? The best thing to do is never bring it up because then he will leave you, trust me I know from admitting something that I did wrong to a guy I love. And it's still taking forever to gain his trust back. So just show your bf the love you want back from him, and if he doesn't respond the way you want him to, be okay with that. If he's cheating on you, you will find out, but don't make a mole hill into a mountain without all the facts. Just love him, and don't be jealous cause jealousy is a demon that is hard to get rid of once you start. Just keep thinking to yourself, "well I have him now, isn't that what counts? I want to be happy with him in the present, and whatever happens in the future is what happens and you'll deal with it when you get to it." But for now, just drop all the suspicion, and just BE WITH HIM! Good luck, write me if you need more advice.
2006-07-27 18:56:44 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you love this man to death but he isn't treating you well at all,in fact,he's being untrue to you in the worst possible way.
I've been in that situation,and you shouldn't let him get away with it.
He'll never treat you with respect.Trust me on this.It'll only get worse, and your life with him will be miserable.
Here is my advice.
You must show him what your worth.
You want a life with this man but you also want to make sure something like this doesn't happen again.
So here's what you do.
Don't confront him on the pictures.(Or if you already have it's no big deal.You still have clout).
Then say you want a trial separation. (And be light about it like it's no big deal,just an experiment).
Then hire an escort (a very handsome one) to pretend to be your boyfriend,at an event where you're sure your old boyfriend is going to be there.Be friendly to your old boyfriend and act like your madly inlove with your new one and completely over him.
You will be queen of the castle again,trust me.
The trick is,never to let your old one know how much you desire him.
2006-07-27 19:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore what you found.
First of all, he can't trust you. your the one who sneak onto his account and loOKed at things. That's a big violation of trust right there. I'd say he could just dump you over that. You may love him to death, but don't respect him at all. would you feel ok with him going on your computer, or reading your diary?
And chatting and pics don't equal anything. It's just words and pictures...
2006-07-27 18:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to end the relationship, just talk it out with him. It is probably just a question of fantasy. Ask him if he ever plans to see that girl, or is it just a net thing. If you have something serious with him, don't leave him for some internet bimbo.
2006-07-27 18:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by Halal Pig Ok in Islam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is looking at some other girl mostly naked, maybe he isnt that in to you? why would you want to be with someone who would do that? clearly you dont trust him or you wouldnt be looking at his email, has something like this happened before?
2006-07-27 18:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by jenz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap his head, and tell him to quit the chat line. If he doesn't, then boot him out.
Dang, what is that chat line anyway, lol I'd love to know.
2006-07-27 18:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do i do to ignore whats behind do falaw my fate & escape blindly...
same song if he is seeing other gils naked top that mens that he's eyes aren't on you
2006-07-27 18:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Yagami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is having hormone rage again. This happens when they don't get sex and need some.
Be patient. Have Faith. He'll probably just do this until you and him are married.
2006-07-27 18:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the fact, he is cheating on you with her and who knows who else he's involved with online.
Cheating is cheating, even the online stuff!
2006-07-27 18:54:56 · answer #10 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say honey but leave him cause if he's not admitted to everyone that he is taken then he obviously do nt care and trust me will end up cheating on you.
2006-07-27 18:54:56 · answer #11 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋