im really scared that my boyfriend will ask me to have sex with him. at this point we have hit every base but home and im really nervous because everytime we're together we end up making out or "touching" each other....
2006-07-27 11:43:45 · 24 answers · asked by x0xnaenaex0x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my parents know and they like him
2006-07-27 11:51:29 · update #1
just tell him ur not ready
2006-07-27 14:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by donielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What he is doing is already illegal. It is called statutory rape. If you go all the way, he can go to jail for sure. Where are your parents, dear? You are making a stupid decison to let him touch you like that at all. An 18 year old going for a 14 year old knows what he is after. You will be hurt emotionally for the rest of your life. Isn't there anyone around to help you? Don't fool yourself into thinking this is love for life. It's not. If you don't have parents, call the cops. I'll bet he doesn't even care about you enough to use a condom if it comes to that. Do you know what a condom is by the way? You are too young to even know what to do. Put a stop to it. Get some self esteem.
2006-07-27 11:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He appears like a proper bloke, like your self i develop into 14 with my 19 12 months previous boyfriend after I nagged for him to take my virginity, he wanted to yet concept it regarded incorrect lower than circumstances... yet nonetheless did...You no what i'm now 22 that guy is 27 n sound asleep in the mattress next to me and we've 3 eye-catching youthful little ones and an striking existence :) you under no circumstances recognize which mistakes will be the appropriate element ever, you need to inform him that, all you ever choose in a guy is recognize and appears like you e gained that!
2016-11-26 19:39:18 · answer #3 · answered by tsistinas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready stick to your guns and say no. 18 is probably a bit old for you to tell the truth. Remind him 14 will get him 20 if he tries to force you into anything you aren't ready for.
2006-07-27 11:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun hes way too old. of course you cant help who you like.
if he really respects you, youve gotta tell him, that you want to wait. If this isnt good enough for him - he wont be caring about anyone but himself.
It is illegal what hes doing. You gotta remember that - dont let him take advantage. Or pressure. Be careful.
2006-07-27 11:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just flat out tell him you're not ready for sex and that when you are you will tell him. And if he really loves you then he'll stay with you until then and afterwards as well. I hope this helps you out and good luck in your relationship
God bless.
2006-07-27 11:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell him straight up next time you two are intimate. Tell him that you like him and all that, but you aren't ready for sex. Don't let him pressure you into anything you're not ready for.
You're still pretty young and he should know better than to pressure you into ANYTHING. If he pressures or forces you to do anything you're not ready for, dump him.
2006-07-27 11:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your jail bait right. if your parents find out about "Mr i have to touch everything", your bf will be doing time and have a sex record for the rest of his life. you two need to take a cold shower.
2006-07-27 11:48:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont want to have sex, then dont. Its as simple as that. If he really cares about you then he will respect your decision to wait. You are still kinda young, so I dont blame you for not being ready. Tell him you want to take things slow. I hope he understands...good luck hun
2006-07-27 11:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and talk to him about it. but if you dont your just leading him on and when he does try and make that final move and IF you say no he will be upset b/c you have been leading him on. if you talk to him and he gets upset b/c you dont want to have sex, he doesnt care about you anyway. maybe try finding someone your own age, your only 14 you shouldnt even be worrying about sex at your age.
2006-07-27 11:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by better_than_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him pressure you, thats 4 years, i would say hes more experienced,....but sounds like you know your stuff, so if you dont want to DO IT with him, tell him, im sure he'll understand!!
Hope it all works out for ya'!!
2006-07-27 11:48:42 · answer #11 · answered by ••Bubbles•• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋