Ive met a few people online talk to them for a few days then it fades out. Ive met 1 guy in person, all went well then we fade away... Whats your thoughts.... Is it that most men only are on line to get one thing and if you are not that kinda person they are not intrested in you... Men help me out here....
2006-07-27 11:35:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess men dont like me because im sucessful(80k), I have things(house,benz), im ugly I guess.. I thought thats what men want or mabye its because I have kids or because im a christian???
2006-07-27 11:47:43 · update #1
I like yourself started just chatting it up with a few different people on line, mostly just about life etc. nothing explicit. Then I was invited to meet one woman in Toronto by her. I was to meet up with her on Friday night. I had invited another lady to meet up on Saturday for a coffee. Well come Friday night and I met this woman originally from Egypt and right off the bat she started talking about how I could move in with her and she would look after me, etc, etc. I had informed all the ladies that I was chatting with that I was physically challenged and walked with a bad gait. Well my experience on Friday nearly scared that heck out of me and so I almost was frightened off about meeting this other lady. Well this other lady and I had chatted on line for quite a while before she ever gave me her name and/or phone number. So we then chatted on the phone line for a couple of weeks before we decided to meet. Well it was the most wonderful experience I have ever encountered. Having been married three times previous the last thing that I was interested in was another relationship to get hurt in. We spent the day chatting, drinking coffee and sitting by the water. Alright it wasn't really water as we live in Canada and it was mid March so there was ice and snow on the water. Anyway, we spent many hours together that day and learned lots of each other's interests, past experiences etc. When it came time to leave I ran into a whole lot of car problems and this girl stayed with me while car was being fixed. On my travels home the car died and I had to have it towed approximately 50 miles, we met half way and it is approximately 225 KM's. I thought for sure that this lady would think of me as the biggest loser on the planet with a black cloud hovering atop my head. But much to both of our surprises we continued to chat and see each other each and every weekend. We would spend hours on the phone each and every night when we weren't together. Well I am proud to say that was 2.5 years ago and now this beautiful lady and I are engaged and are set to be married next May.
So what am I trying to say? I guess what the message is, be careful for what your looking for cause when you least expect it love will come knocking on your door. And no I was honestly not like the men you think we all are. I was certainly not on line for any explicit relationship, they can be bought wherever you live. I was on line feeling like a loser for having gotten to using this machine to talk to strangers. Yet here I am now the happiest I have been in my life.
Best of luck to you. Believe and all good things will happen for you too!!
2006-07-27 12:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I found my current girlfriend on E-Harmony. I have been dating her for four months now and we get along great and the sparks are flying. I was Yahoo personals for a while and that seemed like a total meat market. I have never had trouble dating or finding women that I liked, but the chemistry was always off for whatever reason. Either on their end or my end. I just told my X of two years about E-Harmony because I think it really matches you with people who have similar interest etc.
It takes a long time to fill out the questionaires but if you are looking for your match it seems to me the best way to go. Good luck,
PG
2006-07-27 11:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met the "right one for you". Be real careful about the online chat - I've heard horror stories and I know you have too. I have a good friend who linked up with somebody wonderful more than a year ago at www.harmony.com - and since then I've heard of others. I know there's exceptions, but it seems like this is a nice link for "nice" people....and you appear to be just that. Again, there's exceptions to everything. So, take it slow and easy.... but it may be worth a try! And, I've never heard anything but good about this site. There may be bad...but if there is, I haven't heard it. Good luck. Take care. and...Hang in there!
2006-07-27 12:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by 55PAT33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not imply to burst your bubble, however soul mate is a relative time period. If you imply any one you are going to fall hopelessly in love with and you are going to are living fortunately ever after. I do not consider this sort of character exists. But should you imply the character who you consistently consider approximately and cant do ample for, regardless of wherein you're, then I consider you'll be able to best discover this character via trial and mistake. Just do not rather watching.
2016-08-28 16:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by vandevanter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother met his wife online and have a baby girl now. In my opinion, dating online is the same as in person, you may have to meet a lot of people before you find the right person. Usually love comes your way when you least expect it, good luck!
2006-07-27 11:45:41 · answer #5 · answered by 4 Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband on an online dating site. The only thing I would say is be careful. Make sure you are not putting yourself in danger.
My husband and I hit it off right away. I would have not found him if it were not for the site.
Good luck!
2006-07-27 11:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't happened to me - all the ones I have met so far are just wankers!
But my friend and her husband met online and they've been married 3 yrs. It's the 2nd marriage for the both of them and I think he's 10+ years older than her, and they have kids from their previous marriage.
It not impossible, you just have to be really really lucky.
And YOU ARE NOT UGLY! YOU ARE A GODDESS AND DON'T LET ANYONE TREAT YOU OTHERWISE!
2006-07-27 12:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by gipsy_queen99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my man online and we are very happy. We've only been together for three months but I already know him better than I knew my ex husband after years of being togther. We are talking about marriage and looking forward to the future.
2006-07-27 11:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the right set of circumstances and the right two people and all the right words anything is possible! i am in love and we have never met but with all things in common and both ppl in love then yes! i have met my mate!
2006-07-27 11:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend met his wife online and they have been together 5 years and they both adore eachother and feel they are soulmates....it could happen just takes the right time
2006-07-27 11:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋