is there a way to avoid getting a broken heart?? i mean i know not to get into any serious relationships and stuff, but what else can i do to avoid getting a broken heart??
2006-07-27 11:15:54 · 41 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move to the wilds of Alaska, build yourself a nice little igloo hut, and stay there all by yourself, for the remainder of your life.
Hey... that is about as close of a chance as any to prevent it from happening any more, right?.
2006-07-27 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by boxergirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to avoid getting a broken heart is to never trust anyone with it. That is also the best way to miss out on some of the best things life has to offer. If you never risk breaking your heart, you never have the chance to ever really use it. So what would be the point? When you find the right person, it will be worth all the heart break it took to get you there.
2006-07-27 11:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way of avoiding it unless you never fall in love. Even if you do fall in love and you stayed with that person, there are still may things that can cause you to become broken hearted in the relationship. And if you are a girl there is a 75% chance that he will die before you, so even then it could cause some major heart break. There is no getting around it if you fall in love. And if you dont fall in love, you may have heart break because you missed out on something that most people will have in there life time.
2006-07-27 11:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by purple_bird2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not want to avoid a broken heart honey. Although, painful...it is true emotion. A broken heart means that you truly loved, you lived for someone else, and that you bonded with someone who completed parts of your life that you couldn't on your own. Avoiding those experiences puts you in a position of holding back, being guarded and not allowing yourself to love that way again. It is why they say "It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all". Rather than focusing on the pain of the relationship ending, put your sites on the positive things that came out of the relationship.
2006-07-27 11:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid getting heart broken. Getting heart broken is a process of learning, experiencing in different types of relationships, and each time you get your heart broken the stronger you get. there's a quote but I don't know the exact words but goes something like this..
"best to have loved and lost than not to have love at all"
Have fun, and enjoy fun relationships :)
2006-07-27 11:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to avoid that. Unless you want to stay single for a while that will probably help! Just wait for the person you think is worth sharing your love with. Then you will lessen your chances of getting a heart broken! Like i said before you cant avoid it but you can lessen your chances of getting a broken heart!!!
2006-07-27 11:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time a disaster happens to human beings such as death or cheat or such and such the first thing we ask is WHY?
When human ask "WHY" this means we need knowledge, so the best way (briefly) to avoid getting a broken heart is KNOWLEDGE..
Once we understand the scientific reason we will accept, and when we accept we will no longer ask WHY? and when we stop asking WHY? this means we will never have a broken heart.. because we understand how life is..
And remember.. nothing is worth is ;)
Good Luck..!
2006-07-27 11:26:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is all about learning and to learn we must feel every different emotion. Having your heart broken is not such a bad thing. I think that different experiences in our lives make us who we are in the future. Just take it a day at a time and don't concentrate on whether or not you will get your heart broken, just sit back and enjoy the ride (wherever that may end up).
2006-07-27 11:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by sassy_italia4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing, if you live, meet people, interact with them, one time, sooner or later, if you care for people, your heart will be broken.
It's a fact of life, and everyone, on the planet Earth has suffered from one. As of now, no one has ever died from that sad event.
It's something one gets over in time. Years later, you can look back on it and laugh.
Unless you lock your heart up, and avoid involvements, you can't prevent it from happening. Not a good way to live.
God can mend broken hearts, all you have to do is give him the pieces.
It's not deadly, just painful, and usually short lived.
2006-07-27 11:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to people about how you feel. Go to amazing places. Go to the outside world. Otherwise trust me none can avoid from broken heart. It happens to everyone. The world isn't were peace is.
2006-07-27 11:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋