Guys, i'm not talking about a girl that's so ugly or has an evil look on her face that you don't want to approach her. But i mean if she's pretty, wat about her would make you too afraid or nervous to go up and talk to her, or something like that? Just wondering.
and don't put something stupid like "i'd be too afraid to approach her if she had a vicious pit bull next to her", lol
2006-07-27 11:07:30 · 11 answers · asked by momo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and hey. this question isn't really about me. i've had plenty of guys come up and talk to me.
2006-07-27 11:18:10 · update #1
She has to send readable signals to a guy for him to feel like he has an opportunity to chat with her. Looking cute, but staring off in to space all the time like your too good or not interested doesn't do a thing for me. I usually don't feel afraid to approach an attractive woman, but i won't waste my time either, if i feel she has her ***** shield up, which a lot of them do. The problem with attractive women is....every other guy is always hitting on her with some kind of bull crap. So by the time i might happen along, you'll just look at me as another guy that just wants to get in your pants.
2006-07-27 11:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 2 · 29⤊ 10⤋
There are a few different things to look at here. You probably have though about them or you may already have an answer in you're mind in regard to this question. lets take a look... Often times this is not the girls fault... If a girl is really attractive then only a few types of guys will approach her mostly the ones with lots of confidence. So if you're super good looking and you see a super good looking guy that is shy he might second guess him self and figure you're already taken rather then approach you and ask you key questions. Happens a lot. However, if you're good looking and you are dressed in a way that doesn't appeal to the guys you want to attract then you just made you're self unapproachable. If you're super out going and a guy is not ... he will get scared most of the time. .... So. Here what you do you work on you're self you make you're self happy, and you hold you're self in such a way that guys feel that they can approach you this will take time and work. but it's the same for guys. As long as you're taking care of you're self and setting the image you want based on you're personality the guys you like and what you like the guys will come ... REMEMBER always do things you're way if you see a cool trend that the cute guys are into that you like you don't have to adopt it all the way take bits and peaces put a little twist on it that say hey this is trendy but look at this little addition i made... "THAT'S ALL ME" other then that there are more reason and some people have left some good responses for you. I hope you find the answer you're looking for most of the time you just have to look within.
2016-03-27 02:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally the girls who go over the top to try to seem attractive just don't spark any attraction with me. Lol maybe it's just subconscious cause I've seen that kind of girl too much lol. I prefer the simple girl who isn't afraid to be herself and doesn't hide behind the suzy popular routine.
2006-07-27 11:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by freeze_guy_2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Intimidation.
Some guys, especially inexperienced ones, are intimidated by women who are beautiful, successful, and popular. Sometimes the women have to help to break the ice.
Here's how to be more approachable - good, open body language and a friendly demeanor.
2006-07-27 11:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is confident - nothing. If he's not, do you really want him to ask you anyway? If you answered yes don't be a putz and wait around, you do the asking.
2006-07-27 11:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is just that some guys are shy. Even if they don't act it, they just can't talk to girls as easy as others can.
2006-07-27 11:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by monstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me if she has a terrible personality or if she is to controling or if she demands to be treated like a princess these things would make her unapproachable
2006-07-27 11:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by chaikid88@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to him just as easily as he can come talk to you..
2006-07-27 11:16:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SMOKING
THAT IS JUST A REPELLANT
IT DOESNT MATTER IF SHE IS PRETTY
OH YEAS, AND BODY ODOR, BAD SMELLS
2006-07-27 11:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by axon3_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
body odor
2006-07-27 11:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Tommy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If my G/F was with me.
2006-07-27 11:11:47 · answer #11 · answered by jason m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋