My bf is 37 and I am 23, we have been together for about 10 months. He is a very sexual person, if it was up to him he would do it everyday about 3 times a day or at lease twice a day. And, I on the other hand wouldn't mind it every other day. I give it to him at lease once a day. I sometime joke around with him about maybe he's a niffo and he thinks it normal. So is this normal guys? Do you want/need to have sex everyday? How can I make him understand without hurting his feeling or making him feel I am rejecting him to understad we don't to have sex everyday? or Sometimes I just not in the mood? Any suggestions?
2006-07-27 11:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, "some" guys need it that much.. I have sex about 6 times a day when I can... that beeing said, even us sex addict can usually understand that our partners may not be at the same "pace". Just tell him how it is, if he acts hurt or pouts he's probably just playing it up hopeing you will give in to him... be strong and comprimise.
2006-07-27 11:08:41 · answer #1 · answered by Reverand Ray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The term is nympho just so you know. The only way to tell him is to straight out tell the whole truth. Just because he's your bf doesn't mean that he owns you. You have a say in how often you have sex. I think the reason why he likes having sex all the time is a male ego thing. He's getting close to middle age and I'm sure he loves the fact that he's got someone as young as you to have sex with. He may very well feel both fullfilled and younger whenever you two have sex. There's no sense cushioning the blow. Just tell him straight out. Guy are on average better at taking emotional blows than women are.
2006-07-27 11:10:13 · answer #2 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not into it as much as he is, and offer to watch porn with him and let him masturbate while you are with him. THis will give him the release that he needs because of his libido, give you a break from his constant demands, yet will keep him loyal to you to stop him from looking elsewhere. He may feel guilty, which might bring down his sex drive, and you may get more into sex by watching the porn with him, so you may end up meeting in the middle somewhere. If you shut him down, he will look elsewhere.
2006-07-27 11:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by bradheller@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know how you feel. It is not abnormal on his part but it should not be a daily requirement. Everyone has to enjoy it or it isn't any fun.
You could try some "other" way of helping him when you don't want to have sex. A good hand or blow is always nice too
2006-07-27 11:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Showoff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT DEPENDS ON THE PERSON
IN YOUR CASE HE EITHER LOVES SEX OR IS THINKS BY HAVING SEX WITH U EVERYDAY WILL SATIFY YOU
IN A NICE MANNER
TELL HIM THAT U LOVE HAVING SEX WITH HIM
BUT SOMETIME U NEED A BREAK
BUT LET ME TELL U SOMETHING
I THINK HE MAY NOT BEING THE JOB RIGHT CUZ I M LIKE HIM AND MY GF WAS ALWAYS WILLING TO GO
YES SHE HAD HER DAYS BUT SHE WAS READY
MAYBE UR SEXUAL DRIVE HASNT REACH ITS PEAK
YET DONT WORRY IN A FEW YEARS U WILL AND THE OTHER PERSON WILL BE ASKING THE SAME QUESTION
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-27 11:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and talk to him - you both need to talk about your needs - sexual and non-sexual. Be open and honest - let him know that when you are not in the mood, you are not rejecting him.
My advice to you is to make sure you are meeting his sexual need - if you don't, he'll find someone else that will.
2006-07-27 11:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different people have different drives you may find in a few years he'll slow down, or even that you speed up. Talk to him and let him now that you know he wants it but you don't, consider other ways of pleasuring him
2006-07-27 11:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Edward M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not super normal. Guys tend to want it more than girls though. I could not tell you, not an expert
2006-07-27 11:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No we don't need it every day. also the farther apart it is, the better it will be.for both. but not too far.
2006-07-27 11:11:22 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋