I have been sharing e-mails and text messages on my phone with this girl I met on-line. we have been talking about a lot of things for the past several months now. She says she loves me and I tell her I love her.. But that has just started since I have been typing her sexy sexula ltters on what we will to with each other when we meet. It has gotton very serious. we have been sharing naked photos and videos with each other. We have even been talking about getting married.. every time I tell her about one of my problems she cries. and gets very sad since she wants to marry me.. I told her I had violent issues that stemed from my dad beating my mom. she cried. I told her that I had mental insecurities. she cried. she is very tender girl not a women. How do I tell her I am Bi-polar. I don't want to hurt her. I don't want to make her cry again. she is a physiologist and we plan on get married. How and when do I break the news to her. should I wait until after we first meet and have sex?
2006-07-27 10:51:35 · 4 answers · asked by confused1979 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i suggest you tell her now b/c if you tell her after she could be like, "why didnt you tell me?!" so when you meet just hold her hands, look into her eyes and say, "i finally get to meet you. You're everything i thought you would be and more. look, before t this relationship goes anywhere i want you to know something about me...i happen to be bipolar..no, dont cry its ok. see i'm not crying and feeling sad for myself and i dont want you to either..!"
2006-07-27 11:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by miss♡hollywood 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trade you penis for a virgina you sound like a woman. Being married 29 years I can say never marry it sucks soon after done. Then again same sex marriages are not legal
2006-07-27 18:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Buzzy360comeCme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is amazing you can share naked pics but cant tell her about a disorder that you cannot help..She needs to know..if she really "loves" you she will understand especially if she is a doctor...
PS Buzzy your married? Man, love is BLIND--hope so in your case..your poor wife..
2006-07-27 18:16:44 · answer #3 · answered by Heather b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you really have to tell her and you don't mean to upset her but you want to be honset
2006-07-27 17:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by funeebb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋