Imagine you are being told to meet a friend at a particular place. When you get there people are whisking you away to get dressed. Everything is prepared and setfor your wedding.
2006-07-27 10:47:59 · 44 answers · asked by joebaby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this sounds crazy.......but... you can take it... the happness not mesured of the way you achive some thing but how you'll enjoy it
2006-07-27 10:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by esemsem 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
undesirable concept plus that is a logistical nightmare. a minimum of, you choose him to spotlight his tuxedo (or besides the reality that he's wearing) because it is going to choose to in good structure him properly. the different element is that when the reaction playing cards arrive he will positively see them and ask what's happening and enable's no longer forget that he will choose to e book the destroy day of work too. even if, i imagine in case you could carry out a touch planning and educate him how inexpensively you may do it, then it will be better accessible for him to get into the completed concept of the marriage. there are countless grooms available which couldn't become in contact with the planning so that is often the bride that seems after it yet do no longer make it an entire wonder both because, you under no circumstances recognize, he ought to have some concepts himself.
2016-11-26 19:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by noyola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!!!
Too much out of my control. I wanted my hair, dress, nails, shoes, flowers, etc. to be perfect and we planned our wedding for months to ensure it was what we wanted.
I can imagine a man might be up for this type of wedding, but no woman I know would agree to it. A marriage is a HUGE deal.....and one of the most important days of your life. I wouldn't risk that on some surprise!!
2006-07-27 10:53:48 · answer #3 · answered by nvone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not like it. I mean, sweet gesture and all but, the planning of a wedding is sacred to women. It's something that little girls often dream of. A woman knows what little details she wants at her wedding, and if shes not given the chance to prepare those little detail that you may not even know of, then how is it her day?
2006-07-27 10:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by fennamason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omgosh... i would be mad and happy at the same time...
i mean i bet i know what hes thinking , "oh im gonna surprise her and shell love it!"
but i would be sooooo mad!! i mean, i believe that weddings are more for the girl than the guy, if it was up to most guys, wed all be getting married Vegas style...
Our wedding day is the day we dream of since were little girls, and here comes the "love of your life" and ruins it for you!! AGHGH
my fiancee better not pull something like this...
2006-07-27 11:06:38 · answer #5 · answered by Steph is tight like a tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel cheated, it is suppose to be one of the best days in your life and if you do not get to plan it and make it the way that you want you will resent it for the rest of your life. I wasn't able to have a wedding and I have resented that ever since. It is still a sore subject for us. If you think that this is going to happen then you should ask him not to do it and if it has happened......I am sorry. I wish you well.
2006-07-27 10:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend do that to her husband, but they were already married. She surprised him with a ceremony to renew their vows (they were on vacation in Mexico). She said he loved it (notice SHE SAID). As for surprising you and it's your first wedding, I wouldn't be happy. On another note, the fiancee might have thought that way was easier or you were dragging your feet.....still honesty is the best way to go about it, especially for something as important as getting married. Not a good way to start the marriage.
2006-07-27 10:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was for a TV show he might get away with it but I seen the dresses they can pick! I would still be happy anyways cause I love my guy silly already. BUT He would need to be very good to get something that big done and little ol' me not finding out. He would have my respect lol ~A~
2006-07-27 10:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by momsapplepeye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This would be a sure sign of how they plan to run the rest of your life. They may have meant it as a romantic suprise but for me I would take it as a controlling gesture. A wedding day should be planned by the couple. I would feel munipulated and cheated.
2006-07-27 10:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be utterly livid. My wife sprung a renewal vow ceremony , on Me and I wasn't that thrilled about that, but then again, I really really hate surprises.
However, if you are getting hitched anyway, and she ends up doing all the work and planning and all you have to do is show up, there is an upside there.
So if you like surprises, its a good thing, I mean, you were getting married anyway.
2006-07-27 10:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel good in a way but then we are woman and we need to buy the prettiest wedding dress, and as little kids we dream of having the wedding of our dreams.
2006-07-27 10:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by MJS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋