I live in somewhat of a not so nice place, I wont lie, the rent is what I can afford and it aint the Ritz...
Anyway...my neighbors girlfriend got pregnant...only they haven’t had sex at all...and he actually believes her...
Um I realize this happened in the bible...but what exactly should I tell him here now, because he’s obviously not going to figure this out on his own.
2006-07-27 10:46:15 · 12 answers · asked by Nobody 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Well hes not really my friend, just someone that I say hi to and drink a beer with every once in a while...just don't want to hurt his feelings by saying his wife is full of ****
2006-07-27 10:46:55 · update #1
even if you were close friends, getting in the middle of something like this is only going to cause you trouble. If the guys is stupid enough to believe her and the girl is mean enough to say it in the first place, I would imagine both of them would be capable of hold pretty nasty and long grudges. Talk about football when you drink beer!
2006-07-27 10:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by starcow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is: if you didn't knock her up, then stay the heck out of it.
It's not your place to put yourself in the middle of this upcoming nightmare. So you've figured out that the wife was getting some on the side; good for you. But it doesn't automatically put you in the position of having to do anything about it.
From where I'm sitting, it seems to me that either the guy is as dense as you say, in which case telling him is only going to hurt him, or else he's already figured it out on his own and has decided to let it just be...in which case you're going to be hurting him by rubbing his nose in it.
Just let it be. As long as he loves the kid and his wife, what difference does it make?
2006-07-27 17:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by pblcbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one Has he asked you for advice ? If not, say nothing, you have not been asked to join the party.
Number two. How in the world would you know if they have consumated their relationship or not? It is not that uncommon for a female to get pregnant without actual intercourse. I do not believe I need to get anymore graphic here than that.
The biblical record of the virgin birth was a one time event, for a one time savior for our sins. Not something to see as happening ever before or after this event. It was GOD keeping his promise to us, and once kept , has no need to be repeated.
2006-07-27 18:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually some women do get pregnant with no sex. It is a rare mutation. Very rare, so she is probably lying.
2006-07-27 17:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk slowly and help him understand the facts of life. Sometimes, not everyone knows what some of us take for granted.
2006-07-27 17:50:51 · answer #5 · answered by lifelover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask Jesus into your life and be born again by the power of the Gospel (an actual real life event in your real life) if you do this in a prayer sincerely God will answer you! you have to truely seek then God will answer!
2006-07-27 17:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by truth4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, I'd mind my own buisness. Odds are, he doesn't want to hear what you have to tell him, and if he's as dumb as he seems, then it's probably best that he learn this one the hard way.
2006-07-27 17:50:42 · answer #7 · answered by extton 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's dumb enough to believe that and could go on happily, why burst his bubble?
2006-07-27 17:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, don't worry about his feelings, he needs a wake up call....
2006-07-27 17:50:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myob
2006-07-27 17:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ginger Sling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋