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probably, unless you enjoy one night stands

2006-07-27 10:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by thenuge426 2 · 0 0

ON THE BAD SIDE: If this guy really thinks he's god's gift to women, and he also thinks you are attractive enough to be worthy of his attention, he would most likely already have approached you. If he hasn't approached you yet, then you are probably not his type and/or he doesn't consider you worthy of his time. If you approach him anyway (because you have this enduring hope that if you can just talk to him for a little while, he will recognize your charm and dump all the other girls for you) then go ahead and approach him. One of two thing will happen. He will ignore you, or if he's in an especially generous mood, he'll acknowledge your presence. Shortly after that, you'll end up being just another notch on his gun--broken hearted and embarrassed at the thought that everyone knows you've been had.

ON THE GOOD SIDE: Everyone has a double. Many doubles, as a matter of fact. I'm 66 years old and during my years so far, I'm met people who mistook me for their dentist, psychology professor, and even for their preacher. On one occasion I saw a guy on a TV talk show who looked just like me. Everyone has doubles--they're out there. Trust me on that.

Keeping this in mind, and assuming that your primary attraction to this guy is physical. You know, you find him irresistibly good looking. Then find comfort in knowing that he has doubles (many of them) and most of them won't have his repulsive ego. And in this age of computers, it's easy to meet some of his doubles and possibly find true happiness. Get a picture of this guy from someone, sign up to Yahoo Personals, post his picture as part of your profile, and write a blurb that says you're looking for a guy who looks like the guy in the photo and is humble (and has any of the other qualities you want in a man). Explain that you find the guy in the photo attractive but he has too big an ego, so you're looking for someone who looks like him but is more humble. .

Then be patient; your ideal guy (or guys) will respond.

2006-07-27 11:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hey now, I see nothing wrong with being confident, but we both know there is a find line between being confidently attractive, and then just being a cocky little twit.

So yes, if you believe he really has some kind of God complex, then ignore him. I'll warn you though, (if you're not exaggerating any) guys like this are pretty insecure with themselves. He'll likely get angry, but if you can handle him blowing some smoke over you, I would.

However, if you're just saying that because he said something that touched a nerve or two of yours, then I wouldn't think too much of it. Besides, who would you rather be with? A quiet girly-man, or a guy who doesn't answer to your every beck and call?

2006-07-27 10:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Axel 4 · 0 0

As a westerner who comes from a low-context required language base, I would never ever suggest playing a game for any reason. If you go out of your way to ignore someone aren't you just playing the game of trying to create interest in yourself, and making it more difficult to communicate. On the other hand, you may be giving them exactly what they want to feel more empowered; wen you think about them. On the other hand, if you mean 'not consider' by 'ignore', a different situation arises, and just as I recommend better communication for you, I suggest the same for them. "God's Gift To Women" may be playing a game, too.

2006-07-27 11:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by balanced_rabitt 1 · 0 0

From a guy's perspective, absolutely! Find someone else! In my opinion, there are a lot more guys out there, and, in the long run, you are much better off with a guy that is humble. Unless you are looking for a brief relationship, then I don't really see this type of guy as a good idea for you. The problem is the sense of entitlement; I have a good friend who has this problem to a certain extent. Since girls are after him a lot, he isn't really true to any one girl; he thinks that since he can get lots of girls, he should. It's really a problem. Good luck!

2006-07-27 10:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by willster_2001 1 · 0 0

You are attracted to him ! Why are you attracted to someone who thinks he's god's gift to women ? There are very few coincidences in life, and this sounds like you may have chosen him because he IS the way he is. There is a major psychological disorder that makes some men believe that, and if you are attracted to one person with this disorder, you have to be careful that you don't continue to get attracted to them because they are "sick". It could be that you like confident guys, and it could be that he reminds you of your dad.
Do not ignore him. It all depends on how old you are. So, if you are in school, it is okay to flirt a "little" bit, because flirting is fun. If you are much older, find out why you are attracted to him before you make any moves in his direction.
Also, if you think he is good-looking, chances are good that he is attracted to you, too.
Good Luck !

2006-07-27 10:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by SpongebobRoundpants 5 · 0 0

how do u know that he thinks he is gods gift to women, i mean is it possible you could be thinking of something thats not there? just wondering, you have to keep an open mind if you want true answers. it sounds like if you cant give him a mature response, your playing games by making excuses as to any 'reason' why he deserves to be ignored. no ones perfect, i mean you have no faults? just tell him whats on your mind.

2006-07-27 10:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0 0

Confidence is appealing, arrogance is not...a "god's gift" guy is arrogant...leave him alone...not worth the hassle...when he finds all women don't find him to be such a great gift, he may get a reality check and actually lose some of the ego...

...then again, the attitude may be due to insecurity, but that's not appealing either (someone overcompensating to hide their fears)...

2006-07-27 10:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0 0

Definately ignore that fool. If you try to force the issue of being with him it's all the more ammunition for him to get cocky.

You will be much better off if you find someone who will be humble and appreciate you for who you are. Both of you should be able to communicate without you having to be careful of what you are saying.

Don't stroke this clown's ego any longer, move on.

2006-07-27 10:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by RACQUEL 7 · 0 0

WELL LADY,

you probably should ignore him. He will of course be to concerned about himself to consider your needs. He might however be more amenable if you improve this status further. Whilst I hope that you do improve his status you should still consider that it will always be HIM,HIM,him. and don't forget his dick he will want anything and everything in a skirt. Usually the shorter the better. I believe that the expression ignorance is bliss may be the best course of action in this scenario.

2006-07-27 10:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes. If this guy thinks he is so great he is very arrogant. The problem then lies in the fact that he might consider himself too good for you or even if you get into a relationship he might cheat on you because he can.

2006-07-27 10:46:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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