Sometimes my bf looks at other women when we're out together and it makes me feel jealous and i compare myself to them. I know guys do stare at other women anyway but my bf has even flirted with a woman once who was serving us in Mcdonalds.
2006-07-27 10:36:29 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yup - men are evil when it comes to thinking about how we feel when we see them oggling other women!
My boyfriend does it too - put what pisses me off is - if he checks out these women in FRONT of me - WHAT does he do when Im not there - like when hes with the lads I visualise him yelling and whistling out the window at them!!!!
They're so inconsiderate when they do it - and it makes me feel quite insecure also - but then I look at the girls they normally check out - these young ones wearing a belt as a skirt and a bra for a top and very little else - and well, they dont have much respect for themselves in general - so if our lads want to gawp at trash - let em off.
2006-07-27 21:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your bf is worthy of trust then you should trust him. You see guys are easily aroused by sight, while women are better aroused by other senses, but that's not to say that women can't be turned on in this fashion. If you're feeling jealous then the problem is probably with you and not him. As for the flirting, I've heard many women say their boyfriends were flirting, but the guys were really just being friendly. If you trust him, then you need to stop feeling jealous. He's not dead yet, so he's allowed to look, just so long as he doesn't touch.
2006-07-27 17:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by big_dog832001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in fact make it easy. You comment about the pretty girl first then it puts him in a awkward spot to look or not look but you opened up the dialogue. No need to get jealous that is a useless emotion and does nothing but make you mad. Men will look if he is with you he is with you and if he flirts w/someone else when he is with you there is a lack of respect and you have more issues than him just looking at other pretty women.
2006-07-27 17:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anjanette A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Darlin', did you just say he flirted with a girl workin at mickeyD's when you were with him?
Ya shoulda called a cab from there , say'n see ya loserrrrrr lol
But in general, yeah it's natural to feel jealous.I think, but that's GOOD! Just remember that if he is a gentleman he would do it in an admiring aspect. Face it, the woman's body is beautiful, a work of art....MEN appreciate that. Boys oogle, especially w/ their "girl" Good luck, honey!
2006-07-27 17:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by just my 2 cents 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. even though my bf woundlnt do anything - or at least i hope not. He's a bus driver and some of the girls that get on the bus i think he is looking at.
I compare myself to his ex gf who i never knew - but seen a picture. But then thats cos im insecure!
2006-07-27 18:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? As long as you're his girlfriend.. The good question is why don't you look at other guys and sometimes flirt, I wonder how he would feel.. Remember that you're unique person and that he won't be having with any other girl what he has with you.
2006-07-28 08:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by Psychologist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I know all guys look at other girls, but the most annoying thing is when your with ur man & he does so. He should take care that doesnt happen when your around & ofcourse vise versa. If my man did, i hated it. & i would make sure he knew that. If he likes to stare at other women, then why should I even stick to him!
2006-07-27 17:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get jealous and I most certainly never compare myself to them but I get mad because I find it totally disrespectful. I feel they have all day to look at whoever the hell they want and they can respect me enough not to do it when we are together. They act like their going to die if they let one girl go by without checking her out. It makes me sick to my stomach.
2006-07-27 17:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I think its natural. What gets me tho is when the same said person gets upset when they catch their gf naturally checking some bloke out or merely flirting with some bloke.
Try not to take it to heart. Window shopping is ok as long as he does not get the urge to shop.
2006-07-27 17:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by Storm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if my bf did that i would be all over him like syrup on a pancake!And yes i would feel jealous if my bf did that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!i mean for gods sake what kind of bf would be go with you and he starts flirting with another girl!!!!!!he might be cheating on you.....
2006-07-27 17:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋