I don't know if he is real serious about me. I just don't want to put my feelings out there like that. I think about him 24/7 I ask myself am I dreaming or is it reality.
2006-07-27 10:34:49 · 2 answers · asked by angle2005star 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In talking to my guy friends, they ALL tell me that they prefer to be the one to initiate things. They feel if she is too anxious then this makes them feel that they can't trust her. Guys feel if he were to ever leave (for a trip or something), then maybe she wouldn't wait for him. Therefore, just be patient (I know this is easier said than done). However, if he loves you, he's just waiting for the right time to let you know. Thinking about him all the time is normal...not that healthy, but normal. So, find some thing to focus on (school, job, exercising) and leave all the "moves" to him.
From experience, I've learned the worst thing you can do to a man is rush him...they don't handle that well (AT ALL)!
Furthermore, you know in your heart how he really feels because it's evident...men, not players, are straightforward, they say what they mean, and mean what they said...so, he's shown you how he feels about you...just make sure you're not too far in the heavenlies to see what he has already said...
2006-07-27 10:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by mamamayI 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez if you're afraid to talk to him about stuff, and afraid to trust him, then I'd say you need to either get some counselling, or try to figure out if you're really in love. If you love a man you can't trust and is emotionally hurtful to you, then what's the point?
2006-07-27 17:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋