I need some impartial opinions. I started seeing this guy a couple of years ago, I knew that he had a girlfriend but I thought she was in another state...he never told me to the contrary. A couple of months passed and I found out that he was not dating someone from out of state but someone local. I was very upset but at that time I had feelings for him already ...we continued to see each other. We even traveled together. She found out about us and she broke up with him last year. We started to see each other openly and we were very much in love. He broke up with me in February because we were arguing alot. A few days after that he was back together with his ex. We started talking again and we got back together. Last month he broke up with me again because I lied to him about the fact that I hadn't quit smoking. Two days after we broke up he is at his ex's house. I love him very much! Should I try and make it work 1 more time or just go on with my life?
2006-07-27 10:13:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-07-27 10:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser! Get rid of him quick and just remember this bit of information. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!! So if he is not cheating on you with his ex it could be a different person next time (there could even be a third person involved for all you know). Do you want to continuoulsy keep putting your heart through the grinder for him?? He doesn't care about your feelings if he isn't willing to try to work things out with you. He is using you to make his ex jealous the way he is going back and forth between you two. Let him know that you are not about to put up with his games anymore and move on. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Can you picture living this game with him the rest of your life? Or do you want better for yourself where there is a man who loves you whole heartedly, would do anything for you, treats you like gold, wants to be with you 24-7, wants to plan a future with you, is faithful, is honest, and treats you with respect without another woman hanging on the side? Please, there are plenty of wonderful guys out there who will treat you as you deserve to be treated. Let this one go and dont get caught up in his little games. It will be hard, but it will be the best decision you can make for yourself and your happiness in the long run.
2006-07-27 10:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey! Move on....for your own good. This guy cheated on his girlfriend with you. If he did it to her, he will (and probably did) do it to you! It seems like he's trying to figure out a way to play both of you (and who knows how many more). He probably figures he can get away with anything....after all if he makes one of you mad, he just goes back to the other. Go out and find yourself a guy you don't have to chase around so much...you'll be much happier in the long run.
2006-07-27 10:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by accounted_four 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it shouldn't matter if his girlfriend lived out of State or next door. He had a girlfriend and you should have backed off. Period. That was just not cool.
This guy can't seem to make up his mind. I'd look for a new interest. One that isn't taken this time.
Good luck.
2006-07-27 10:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by sahm2boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love bites! It doesn't seem to be working out between you two, I would try to move on and find another guy! He keeps switching back and forth between you and his ex, I don't think he can make up his mind which one he wants ... don't feel to bad, there's someone out there that likes you, you just have to find him!
2006-07-27 10:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with you life, he will continue to find a reason to break up with you when he want for smoking what ever? you can't trust him because if you look at the pattern. he never stop talking to that girl. so the whole time he we decieving you and talking to her on the side, but you did deal with somebodies man. he was not available when you first meet him he is a lier and he is selfish.
2006-07-27 10:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by seeking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it was wrong for you to date someone who was already dating someone else. Second, move on with your life. He will keep bouncing back and forth between the both of you as long as you allow him to. I would move on.
2006-07-27 10:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by alwyzn2somthn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if everything is now is confusing it will continue to be. It seems to me he just playing with both of your feelinfs. You don't have to take that I know you probably love him. But there is someone out there for you who really will love you for you.
2006-07-27 10:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you expected people to say this ...but, i defiantly think you should move on! He is using whoever is available...if she dumped him he would go to you and if you dumped him he would go to her....and yeah smoking may not be good for you ....but if you love someone ...they dint leave you because of that....they try to help you.
2006-07-27 10:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by megan l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!!
Girl, it might be difficult to move on. But it's that time.
Move on.
You can find a guy who actually isn't attached.
2006-07-27 10:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Q. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl! A man who treats you like that doesn't deserve the amount of attention your giving him! You deserve better, and he deserves to get his head shoved up his ***!
2006-07-27 10:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by Megra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋