how to be a pure or tough guy ?

Question

my gf told me that i am a soft guy , she said i am not like a tough guy. i am handsome , slender.

I care about her a lot.
i pay attention to her , i treat her nicely and i use romantic words when i talk to her. also i never talk loud with her , kind of treating her politly.

but today she told me the way i act and the way i talk is not like a tough guy. she knows i am not gay but she things i am too soft as a guy.

what should i do to be a tough guy ?
how can i change ?
what are the aspects of a tough guy in female's perspective ?

Answer 1

maybe she is just too dumb to realize you are a good guy

try slapping her bottom more

Answer 2

You need to stand up to yourself and your beliefs, and not back down ever. If you are in a situation where someone disrespects your woman, instead of just walking away, make them apologize. Show her that you stand up for what's right, no matter what. If someone treats you or her wrong, and wont repent, punch them in the throat and kick them a few times. If this girl wants you to fight for no reason, she's trouble.
Also, when your sure she's up for it, catch her offguard and be ruff with her in the bedroom department. She will probably be into it, if she says no BACK OFF, but toss her around and have your way with her.

Answer 3

you could buy the biggest dualie truck on the block
get a big screen [like a 70 inch] invite all your friends that have not grown up to come over and watch a football game every season , work 3 jobs , or go to the Gym and take alot creatine
so you look like a bodybuilder , or go on a cruise in the
pacific ocean by yourself and flirt with all the women on the boat

Answer 4

Maybe try not to be so polite to her sometimes. I think maybe she's wanted you to be more masculine. Walk and talk a little tougher and don't be Romeo. Now that is really outdated. Sounds to me that she's not accepting you for the way you are. If that's the case, you need to reconsider your options. Smack her around a little bit. (not really.)

Answer 5

AVOID MASTURBATION->THAT'LL GIVE YOU SELF CONFIDENCE THAT YOU DON'T NEED THAT THING OFTEN.

TALK LESS->YOU'LL SAVE ENERGIES BY THAT.JUST DONT OPEN YOUR MOUTH UNTILL ITS TOO IMPORTANT FOR YOU U TO DO THAT.WHEN YOU TALK, TALK SENSIBLE.

BE A GUY ON YOUR OWN->KEEP YOURSELF BUSY IN THINGS THAT INTEREST YOU. NEVER SHOW HER THAT YOU ARE TOO CONCERNED ABOUT HER.THIS IS GOOD FOR YOU TOO AS A PERSON.LIVEYOUR OWN LIFE

AND IF FINALLY NOTHING WORKS SWITCH OVER TO ANOTHER GIRL WHO LOVES YOU THE WAY YOU ARE AND HAS NO COMPLAINTS ABOUT YOU.

Answer 6

She needs to know your her man when with you...but amonsgt other men your your own man and can be as tough as the situation calls for it.

Answer 7

Fisrt step to be a tough guy: don't ask on yahoo answers how to be tough.

Answer 8

RESPECT.

That is what it is all about. General respect for humanity and the willingness to fight for those that cannot defend themselves.

That is what being a tough guy is all about.

Answer 9

Your soft and she's your girl having sex with you. Man, man up and tell her to shut the f@ck up. She might like something your doing to keep her satisfied.

Answer 10

Get a new girlfriend. You should not have to change something like that. Many girls would find that attractive.

Answer 11

if you change, will she still care about you, she chose you for who you were, now she wants to fix you. she is finding reasons to distance herself from you, she is comparing you to someone she has an interest in. start looking for a new g/f. your time is limited with her.