i ( did it ) with my boyfriends brother what do i do tell him or dont tell him ? im confused and sad i should have never done it but i was mad at him !!!!! i feel bad !!!
2006-07-27 10:07:33 · 18 answers · asked by adrianna s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't tell him. If he doesn't know, he can't be hurt. Don't cheat again.
2006-07-27 10:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd tell him he may be very upset and yell or whatever. But sooner or later something will come out about it and the pain will be much worse when he finds out you kept it a secret. Mad at him or not thats no excuse for cheating on him. Dont do it again and tell him...
2006-07-27 17:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some paper and a pen out when reading this or divide the paper in half.1 side to "what could happen if you do tell him" and the other side "what could happen if you dont tell him".
I'll give you a few examples.
What could happen if you do tell him -
Break up with him
Kiss and make-up and you promise never to do it again.
He realises how sorry you are and forgives you.
He falls out with his brother and you and his family has spilt in haf and they both hate you.
He thinks your a liar but he cant ive without n you say sorry n get on fine.
He tihnks its brings you closer cos he knows your truthful.
What could happen if you dont tell him-
He could find out anyway and hate you.
He could find out n realises how much he hates his brother and they get into a huge fight.
He never finds out .
His brother tells him but he realises how much he oves you and how much he cant live without you and forgives you.
If you dont think you can make your mind up maybe its best if you go different paths.
2006-07-27 17:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by xxExx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, this is the way it can be done. You cheated on him so you should take him out and asked him "If I tell you something will you get mad?" Allowed for response and you can say that it happen by a mistakes and promise never to cheat again.
2006-07-27 17:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by problemsolver86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope "it" was good, because you have no choice but to tell your boyfriend and hurt him now or tell him later and hurt him more. All your choices are bad at this point, you have to choose which one is the best of the bad choices: That's to tell him now and apologize. In the future, don't do something that will likely end your relationship unless you really want your relationship to be ended.
2006-07-27 17:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by kevinb49 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him....the result probably won't be pretty but the odds are he will find out in the long run. Then he'll be mad because you did it AND because you hid it. All it would take would be he and his brother getting into an arguement one day and his brother tells him.
2006-07-27 17:15:28 · answer #6 · answered by accounted_four 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrongs never make a right. Don't make it worse by keeping a secret. You're going to have to come clean. It is not only going to affect your relationship but you b/f and his brother. It is going to get worse before it gets better so do the right thing and learn from your mistakes. Best of luck.
2006-07-27 17:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by D baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just low rent.
Ok you screwed up big time and do not know what to do.
Well if you plan on keeping your b/f you better tell the brother to keep his mouth shut about it. There is nothing in the world that will keep you two together if he finds out.
Not to mention how screwed up he and his brother are going to be.
So silence is golden here.
2006-07-27 17:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever u feel like doing. i fell that u should not tell him but that is my opinion. Its all up 2 u. Think about it 4 a while and do what feels right.
2006-07-27 17:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Ruee.beeh lovee:) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband slept with my step sister, he did not tell me and we went about our life had two children and my sister got married I did not know anything until my youngest was almost two and he slept with my other sister and they were jealous of each other and my sisters husband told my dad who took me out in public for lunch to tell me my husband of 7 years had slept with both of my sisters, you need to tell him I have never been so humilated and embarrassed, if he had told me the first time it happened we might still be together worked it out moved away, but after 10 years of being apart, (hes cheating on his current girlfriend) I'm glad. don't cheat just leave him but tell him.
2006-07-27 17:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Katrina Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do tell ur bf bcoz if u will not tell him then u ll cheat him which is not good by telling the truth he will definately understand u if he loves u he will forgive u n after that don't u just try again to cheat him if u will do so then,just leave him or may he will leave u if u love him then u will never ever do such a mistake agin if u do so ...........................
2006-07-27 17:20:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋