I know this sounds unusual, but its the truth. I am 24, a fairly attractive guy who happens to be well endowed and know my way around the bedroom. Recently Ive noticed that woman have been using me (all ages, older, younger) for sex. How can I step away from being a "man-whore" and start a meaningful relationship? Any approaches/suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks
2006-07-27 09:58:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hum...I hate u?? what did I do so bad. I do appreciate the answers though maybe I am a little weak to resist temptation I agree
2006-07-27 10:08:45 · update #1
sometimes its hard not o give in to temptation.... :-)
2006-07-28 06:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by blahblahblah 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
focus on everything but sex....when you go on a date, dont just make conversation about sex, talk about your job, where you live, your memories of different places youve been, your hobbies, your car...anything, but sex, dont forget to learn about her too....then any time after like 2 months-2 years(depending on the person your dating) you start aproaching the sex issue. the reason i say this is because i, as a woman personaly feel that what a guy is talking about is what he thinks about, so on a date, or hanging out with a guy that is always talking about sex, would not be on my list of long term commitment....you have to show that you are not just about sex, that you are a person, not an idol (no matter how well endowed)
2006-07-27 10:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many women out there looking for a meaningful relationship! I don't know how you meet your females but i only know about 2 girls like that. Try looking for women in some other places!
2006-07-27 10:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold out on sex for about 6 dates or more. Good Luck
2006-07-27 10:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by diannabishop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with them so fast. As soon as you have sex...they know they can use you for it. But as long as you hold out, they can't use you for sex. It might be hard to resist the beautiful women, but if you don't want to be used for sex....then don't have sex until you know the woman is sincere.
2006-07-27 10:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you wanna get away from all of that and you dont mind a slightly younger woman (21 in Sept.) then holla at me...i'm tired of guys trying to do the same...i'm looking for a real man...so holla...
2006-07-27 10:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by likesuga2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deny women that trip to the bedroom and watch them fall in love with you.
2006-07-27 10:01:39 · answer #7 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a whore...don't sleep with a girl right away, wait for a few dates and try to get to know her...at least make her think your NOT a slut!
2006-07-27 10:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try not sleeping with everyone. when you begin a relationship tell them that you dont want to have sex with them for a while
2006-07-27 10:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by guitar814girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to church to meet someone..someone that you think doesn't act like a whore and isn't too shallow to sleep with u right away and would get to know you first.
2006-07-27 10:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always dress up like a lady and hang around in bars...
2006-07-27 10:02:00 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋