How come it seems like all the guys I know are either in a relationship or married? And all the other guys that I run into are only interested in getting in my Victoria Secrets? Dont' get me wrong, I like sex just as much as the next person, but I would like to go out on a date or two before jumping into bed with a guy!
2006-07-27 09:45:37 · 42 answers · asked by latina21_01ucf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are still plenty of fine, single men out there. I'm one of them. :)
Foreplay and patience seem to be lost arts on most people, thanks to the fast food hurry hurry instant gratification society that we've become.
Where are they located? Murphy's Law always seems to make sure that they're far, far away.
2006-07-27 09:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by thefunofitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you're looking for love in all the wrong places! If that's the sort of guy you keep meeting, either look elsewhere or check to see whether your appearance or behavior is being misinterpreted as signalling "Come hither, big boy!" Seriously, try a dating service - but be sure you communicate with potential dates so that they know in advance you won't be gettin' horizontal at first sight. If you do choose to meet someone in person that you meet via a dating service, make sure it's in a very public place, so that if things don't seem to be quite on the up-and-up, you can walk away in relative safety. Don't let him nag you into going someplace "more private" on that first - or even the second - date. If he can't handle that, he is not worth your time and you should tell him what Dick Cheney said to the senator: "Go f*ck yourself!" Hon, it can be a pain to search for a meaningful relationship with a decent partner, but judging from the wording of your question - you deserve a good guy. Be patient...there are still some of us out there looking for a woman just like you!
2006-07-27 09:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I find I meet all the take or married women around. We're one in the same. I'm 25 as well with a knack for finding the taken ones.
I get frustrated cause all my female friends say I'm a nice guy, but I can never find someone. Hang in there, we are out there, just gotta luck out and find us. :-)
2006-07-27 09:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking in some other places. If you go to a club or party you are going to meet the kind of guys who hang in clubs if a guy is always in a club he is always looking for a booty call. I am not saying it is impossible to meet a decent guy in a place like that but you will have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your princess.
2006-07-27 09:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand exactly what you are talking about. Just be true to yourself and don't give in to those losers. There are good men out there. I know because I have one. Be patient and the right guy will come around.
2006-07-27 09:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to hold out to find the right guy. At least 4 dates. :) That's how you know if they care :) Also, try looking at church or local volunteer oppurtunities only nice guys do those (mostly)
2006-07-27 09:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by diannabishop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick me! I'm not married and I'm not getting into any victoria secrets until I'm married:)
2006-07-27 09:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by Jim2386 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're all hiding because they're tired of women dumping them for being too nice. How many times I've heard, "I just don't know how to handle being treated so good. All my BF'S were jerks, beating me and treating me like crap. It's what I'm used to...sorry." as they headed for the door to go back to the losers.
2006-07-27 10:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by paesano2578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only two dates, your standards are way to low to be in a serious relationship.
2006-07-27 09:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Doogle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, your day will come, just be patient. I found the love of my life and I'm never letting him go. Good Luck!!!
2006-07-27 09:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by just me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋