I am 33, divorced, employed, nice-looking, intelligent, humorous, strong-willed, sexy, feminine and articulate. I enjoy writing (currently working on a book of poetry and a fictional novel), reading, working out, walking, using the internet, listening to music, watching television, going to the movies and spending time with my family. I do not drink or smoke. I have never done drugs. I speak my mind but I also listen well. I just don't have time for nonsense. I am too old to play games and dating can be such a game. I want to meet good men with goals and plans on how to achieve them. I want to connect with someone who is ready to receive a real woman in their life. I don't do nightclubs. I am not looking for casual sex. I am the mother of two females, so I will not be bringing all types of men around my girls. Am I a lost cause? What can I do to give myself some options because right now, it's been months since I talked on the phone to a man? I am lonely but not desperate. HELP!
2006-07-27 09:40:03 · 8 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you arent a lost cause. im 32 and a widow with 3 kids. if your like me your problem is you dont go anywhere enough to meet someone. plus i always have my kids with me. i started letting friends set me up, i started going to the gym and i go walking around medipark every day. the more you put yourself out there the more people will notice you. also the more busy you keep yourself the less lonely you feel anyway. go to a coffeehouse with female friends or something. go bowling with friends it does work. i wosh you well and thank goodnees theres someone else whos a single parent who agrees its not a good idea to have men in and out of their house.
2006-07-27 09:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well dont give up thats a start. and no bringing home strsng men around kids leads to lots of question you may not have or want to answer.
my im 37 m single looking never been married so my cloeset has no skeloton in it im sacred of the night club bite my self.
how much of the poetry have you written? Goals yes i have a few but takes more then one to get them done. share the fun
2006-07-27 09:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def, get involved in church & ur community. . to meet decent people. .
if u want trash . .then go to the local bars., .if u want gentlemen.
try the 40/40 club .. .this is a sports bar. . not a dance club or not for cheap young men looking for one night stands. .
or get an account at www.match.com or some of the better dating / social netowrking sites..
2006-07-27 09:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dj Enigma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It begins with interests. We all have interests in life that we like to do and feel natural at doing. Join a club, that shares your interest and begin meeting new people again.
It's really not all that difficult to do. All it takes is a few baby steps to join something new!
2006-07-27 09:43:54 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out let me know...I am at the same cross-road, but much older...I plan on getting more involved with my Church...there are plenty of single women and they actually have singles activities ...so I suggest if you have a spiritual side that you consider the same...most are more your age than mine...good luck.
2006-07-27 09:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to dat men if you want a good man so start playing games and have fun. life only lasts so long.
2006-07-27 09:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by redhead hottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a lost cause. :) Trust me. Try church and volunteering at local wholesome events great way!
2006-07-27 09:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by diannabishop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
social battery cables?
2006-07-27 09:42:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋