i have sat down with the kids and counselors over the years and we have continuously warned them of whats going to happen if they continue these behaviors. when everyday either one of them has stolen something,broken something told me they hate me ,told me they wish i would die,have raised their hands at me,they make me nervous at times. their are times when ive had to physically restrain them. it was either me or them.ive called the police and they dont do nothing butslap the cuffs try to scare them alittle and then let them go they unless they commit a crime there is nothing they can do and its hard sometimes because they both steal and so unless i saw exactly who stole and since they both lie im stuck again with things missing. ive written to maury but havent heard anything yet. ive went to social services and asked about respite,and they said that because of the severity of their behaviors there is no respite for them. i feel like my heart is about toexplode.ijustwantthebestforthem
2006-07-27 09:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by jbaxtron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It sounds like you might want to sign your kids over to the court, so that they can get the help that they need, and it sounds like you need a break, a vacation, some time alone and then a lot of counseling. It is hard but it sounds like you've tried everything within reason, that social worker you talked to should have some advice on getting your kids to be wards of the court so that you will not be held responsable when they act out.
2006-07-27 09:44:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take them to church and sit on the front row , each week , both Saturday and Sunday ( there are church's that open both days) seventh day Adventist and Baptists or what ever is close) and make the family do this every week until kindness sinks into them .It does work ...
2006-07-27 09:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need serious help! I'd say 2 continue trying 2 seek help 4 them. Don't hurt them.
2006-07-27 09:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try boot camp for them. No matter how much it hurts you, it will help them. They wouldnt be sitting around there running me crazy, put there butts in boot camp and see how they like that. Actually I wouldn't care how they like it, they would go.
2006-07-27 09:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋