How to win a woman heart?

Question

I really like women and all the days a find at least 4 or 5 girls that I really like, but i really don't know how to act like a "don juan" then usually the ladies never know about my interest in them. It's very sad. Besides a don't have a lot of money, which is another problem. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

I think Don Juan is a myth. Forget that. What a woman wants will depend on her age. The younger they are the more they want that romantic and exciting prince charming. As they get older they begin realign their priorities. By my age we realize that dependability and health, and kindness are way more important. So what you need to do is cultivate the right traits for the age woman you are seeking.

Most of all be yourself because the worst thing is to start a relationship as someone you are not. That is doomed to fail from the start.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Well if a woman's only into you b/c she wants money then something bad is wrong w/her!!!! Try picking just one girl that you really like and take her out to do something she wants to do, find out what her favorite flower is and suprise her with it, girls love that! Or make her something, like cook a special meal for her, simple things, and you could tell her at least 5 things you love about her! Girls like it when guys do stuff from the heart even if it didn't cost anything. Talk to her, if you try to find out more about her then she'll feel that your more interested in her and not just wanting a one night deal. Try not to get involved with more than one girl, b/c if a girl finds out your messing around with another girl then they will think your a player and a jerk, and that's not good! Maybe this helped! Good luck!

Answer 3

Have you tried talking to some of these women? Have you asked them out on a date? You don't have to spend a ton of money, sometimes the best dates are the creative ones, not a Rib Eye and Lobster dinner.

Step 1: Pick one of the 5 you like the best or that you think would want to go out with you.

Step 2: Ask her out.

Step 3: Find out a tad about her, what she likes, dislikes, entertains her, etc.

Step 4: Plan a fun cheap date that will touch on one of these things.

Best,

Answer 4

Hey man, girls don't care about money!! ( at least the good ones)

Just be yourself, that' the best thing you can do. Be nice and be more talkative, and never try to be somebody you are not, you want them to like you for who you are, right?

( I just fall fo a guy...do you know why? Because when we talk, he shows interest and he makes me feel like there is nowhere he rather be than there talking to me)

Answer 5

You don't need a lot of money to romance a woman. My man would romance me with love letters, cards, back rubs, conversation and just goofing off together. It was the simple things that caught my heart. He would open the car door for me, stick up for me, show me that he cared about me. He really won my heart when he made me feel as though I was the most important thing in his world.

Answer 6

Exactly!

Confidence in yourself is what a woman likes.

A woman wants to be taken care of. A man that takes good care of himself, well groomed, nice shoes, nice hair, clean shaven face, clean finger nails. Take good care of yourself and always dress to impress. Do it in a casual way though. You don't have to wear a suit and tie all the time. Nice shorts and pressed shortsleeve shirt is good enough.

Walk with your head upright and shoulders back. This shows confidence in your walk.

SMILE. Ever notice when you smile at someone they always smile back?

Wear deoderant and maybe a nice cologne. Nothing to strong, just enough to make you smell good if she gets close enough.

The eyes are the doorway to the soal. Look at your woman in the eyes. Not at her but or at her boobs. Let her see the seriousness in your eyes. When you talk to her, look her in the eyes. Compliment her on hour beautiful her eyes are.

If you are in a relationship and are having sex, make sure she comes before you. Always!
Rent some X-Rated sex movies and learn some techniques. Most of the women I have had sex with, love oral sex. I go down on my women always. It makes me more excited to see them orgazm before me. While you are down there, suck on the clit and lick the clit softly up and down, then while you are doing that, with your middle finger, (its the longest) stick it in and straight up. Like you are trying to touch her belly button from the inside. That's most women's G-Spot. In and UP. that's why they like it from the back. Cause your penis is hitting the spot from that angle.
If you can make her get off every time you are with her. She'll always want it. And she'll want you to be the one, cause you know what you are doing.

Above all. Be confident about yourself.

If you dont' make much money, budget your money well, so you can take her out to dinner or a movie or something. You dont' have to drive the nicest car, live in the biggest house, etc. You just have to have good self esteem, and have a vision of what you want to do for the rest of your life. Share your visions (dreams) with the one you want to marry. Let her know that you have planned the future and you would like your future to include her.

Don't push marriage on her. You'll know when the time is right. NO MATTER WHAT, dont' change who you are, or who you want to be for a woman. You'll regret it for the rest of your life and you'll probably go back to being who you really are, which will end the relationship you got into. She will think you were someone else. Let her fall in love with the man you really are, and if it was meant to be, it will be!

Answer 7

the most important thing is to just be yourself, if they like they liek u for who u are, never try to impress a girl by actin like somebody else, just be respectful, polite, and every once in awhile give them complements

and as far as ur money situation.........
if a girl really likes u, she'll like you for u and not for ur money, but it is a good idea to at least have a job then a girl knos that ur not irresponsible or lazy..............but if u dont thats ok too, jsut remember be urself and be respectful

Answer 8

dont be a don juan...that is only attractive for a little while....get involved in something that makes you feel good about yourself...that will give you confidence which is hugely important to women

Answer 9

sweet jestures work. i loved it when i got a hand picked flower or a cute e-mail when me and my hubby just started talking. look in newspapers and entertainment books to find local events that are inexpensive they can be alot of fun.

Answer 10

first of all dear stop being NEGATIVE.....dont assume fast..if you like a person you need to tell her that so she will know coz if your not saying anything....THERE NO WAY OF HER KNOWING THAT....ESP IF YOU JUST SEEING THEM IN THE STREET...AND THEY ARE NOT PSYCHIC...TO READ YOUR MIND...RIGHT?

anyways try working on your self esteem this is more important....IN YOUR PERSONALITY.

GOOD LUCK