I fell in love with a girl 2 years ago, life I never did before. This girl became my whole life. We had a lot of moments and it seemed it was working but she never wanted to really try and she went back with her ex. I was completly depressed since that time, lost motivation for everything, left school, etc. So from a year after that I decided to stop seeing her. Not so long ago I though it helped and started to see her again, since she was my best friend. We would talk about everything, had the most complicity ever. But it all surfaced back. Her boyfriend left her, and it changed in my head cuz I though I would have another chance someday. I flirted and sometimes it seemed she was flirting back. But a completly random guy popped, they only talked a little on msn and saw 2 or 3 times and she falled madly in love with him... wtf? Now it's worse than ever, everyday I'm either depressed or in a complete rage. I can't concentrate on anything I only think about all that. Help?
2006-07-27 09:18:49 · 13 answers · asked by hadden1407 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I met a lot of girls since that time but never loved or was interested in any of them.
2006-07-27 09:20:26 · update #1
Also, since we've started seeing each other again, the friendship seems completly wasted she doesn't talk at all like before and only seems awkard with me. Since it's the only thing I though I could get back, that doubled my rage and depression.
2006-07-27 09:22:40 · update #2
I did express everything I felt and everything I though about her yesterday, told her maybe I'm gonna have to leave her life forever... I don't know if she felt anything about that, but her only answer was: okay, I'm sorry I make you feel this way.
2006-07-27 09:26:10 · update #3
Wow thanks for all the fast answers, you're all pretty much right... I'll walk away and hope these emotions disappear.
2006-07-27 09:34:58 · update #4
Been there before, and on both sides of the coin. Not a good feeling. Whether you think that you are perfect for her, she obvilously does not feel the same way. She may love being your friend, but it sounds like that is about it. You need to distance yourself from her and go on with your life. I know it may seem like the pain will not ever go away, but it does. If you spend all of your time and energy on someone that is not worthy, then you will miss out on your one true love. It like that song by Rascal Flatts "God bless the broken road that led me straight to you". Move on. All of the trouble and hearache you are going through now, is just preparing you for "The One".
2006-07-27 09:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by LISA F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is trust that time will heal your wounds. I know it's a cliche, but trust me, it's true. I was deeply wounded by someone who I truly loved coming in and out of my life. Unfortunately, it is the people we love the most that have the power to hurt us the most. Try and find some peace with the thought that things will work out for you. Maybe not the way you planned, but they will work out. This girl is clearly incapable of making a commitment and the way she is treating you is simply cruel. You need to do your best to break away from her and if in the future she comes to her senses then you can decide if you want to be with her or you may find that you no longer want to be with her anymore yourself. Noone deserves to be treated like that.
2006-07-27 09:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know its hard but you just keep digging yourself in a deeper hole. I been like that for the past year afer a 2 1/2 year relationship. It went from a bumpy start to a smooth ride then last year it all came crashing down. yet there are days i want him back but i know i can do better and so can you. You can find a new girl who is not going to want to find a new guy to replace you cause they want you as much as you want them. Then you got true love right in front of you to cherish for the rest of your days.
2006-07-27 09:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave this girl alone, tell her your feelings for her and that she hurts you every time she meets someone new. Seems like she was just keeping you around in case no one else came along. With that kind of attitude, you two will never work. She does not love you the way you loved her and she doesn't deserve you! You need time to be alone, figure out that you are worth someone's honest, total love and you will be fine.
2006-07-27 09:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by kittykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not worth all that. Maybe you'll fall in love with one of the other girls u like. Don't waste ur life on another human being.
2006-07-27 09:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make a choice cause thats what life is you can be depressed or not full of rage or not try to think about what you learned and use that in the future it is hard but we have all been there buddy and all you can do is grow
2006-07-27 09:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by partylitebyterra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... its really sad....well i would say u love her crazy. and she is lucky girl. but i dont think now it work out.. can u trust her again if she come back again... think twice.. before say yes. and there is a lof of girl in the world sweetheart so dont think abt her too much i know its take time so take yr time be cool... and find a perfect girl whom u want .... good luck yr friend pinki from atlanta
2006-07-27 09:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by pinks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another girl man, get another girl. Even if you went back to her, she would just drop your *** for the next guy in line. Face reality.
2006-07-27 09:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find happiness within yourself, then you more able to find a good relationship.
... It worked for my wife and I.
God Bless,
Vic
2006-07-27 10:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by Vic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to have to agree with ME She is using you my friend!!! She doesn't care about your feelings at all because if she did she would not treat you like this!!
2006-07-27 09:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋