bad pregnancy?

Question

Has nybody have anything bad happen during the pregnancy of your unborn?? my mom died suddenly jan 29, 2006 and i had to be induced with my son feb 3rd in order to attend the wake and funeral. I feel i got robbed and i am constanly reminded how long it has been since my mom died...all i have to do is look at my son and remeber how old he is...i don't resent him at all, he is my life...i just wish my mom knew her grandon and watched her favorite granddaughter(my 8 yr old daughter) with her new brother.

Answer 1

So sorry to hear that. It is up to you now to show love to your children twice as much, since they miss their grandma.
My grandfather died when he was 54 on my grandmother's birthday. In life we all have our stories and drama. It's all in how you take it. You can honor your mother on that day, but never let it steal your joy and your son's birthday.

Answer 2

My sister died at the age of 28 the day I found out I was pregnant. I called her to tellher the news and when my mother answered her cell phone I just knew. I had suffered multiple miscarriages and i began showing signs that i was experiencing another,(cramping and passing blood clots) although I asked my mother not to tell anyone I was pregnant she told the whole family (she said with my sister dying she just wanted to be able to share some good news) so at the funeral all everyone kept asking about was the baby , when was he due Etc and touching my stomach. as it turns out I was carrying twins, i lost one but my son was born in october. I miss my sister but my son is a wonderful blessing and even her death cannot overshadow the gift god has given me. by the way Feb 3 is my birthday AND the day I conceived my son.

Answer 3

My grandma died right before I got married and I thought it was horrible. My other grandma died right before I got pregnant and my daughter ended up being born on her birthday. I wanted them around for selfish reasons back then but now I realize it was their time to go and they didn't need to be here suffering just so they could fit into my life. Now I know they are both in a better place. I think it's special that my daughter shares her birthday with my grandma and it's a good way to remember her and all the positive loving times we had.

Answer 4

I truly don't believe that she isn't able to see him and them. You have to look at if from a different perspective. You are constantly reminded because of what you choose to believe. Don't look at it as though having him you lost her. With him you have just gained another part of her. Because somewhere inside of him lies parts of her too. He may grow up to remind you of all the good things about your Mom. Maybe her reasons for being on this Earth where to leave it and give his soul a time to live. So, you get to enjoy them both. Maybe not together. It's not all bad.
Since he was born in time of sadness in your life. Instead of choosing to be in sadness, why not find something to do with him in memory of your Mom (like a hobby she liked, etc.) that is just for him and you. Nobody else. I know this sounds sappy but hey it is better than staying sad.

Answer 5

I never really met either of my grandfathers.

I regret this happened with your mother, your son's grandmother. However, you can gather memories, photographs, films, stories. Gather as many memories from your own memory and other family and friends. When your son is old enought to hear them, he will appreciate it and I'm sure a connection will be made.

Answer 6

hi before each and every thing congrats!undesirable being pregnant does no longer mean undesirable exertions.as that's ur 2d one ur body is already used to the exertions discomfort and it is going to adjust to the change of hormones besides.i wish u'll have a sweet and amazing infant quickly solid success

Answer 7

I am so sorry that must be very hard for you....It has nothing to do about you resenting your son but that's an everyday reminder.

Answer 8

cherish your son and rember and cherish your mother she can see him