I'm 17 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. Sure, maybe I'm not the best looking guy out there, but I'm pretty fit and not fat at all. I don't do crazy stuff like heroine or stuff like that, and I like to have a good time. I'm nice to people but I'm not a pushover. I have confidence to ask a girl out but I've been denied every time that I've asked. I go to a large highschool with 2000+ people. I don't know what's wrong with me...
2006-07-27 09:10:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If girls smell desperation and/or lack of confidence on you, they'll be instantly repelled. The reverse is true as well. Confidence is a strong aphrodisiac (but don't go overboard or it'll come across as *********). And if they get the impression that you couldn't care less about hooking up with them, you just increased your stock again. Everybody wants what they THINK they can't have...the harder to get, the more highly it's prized.
In the end, having a girlfriend is far from the most important thing in the world. Just relax and quit looking for one...THAT'S when they fall into your lap!
2006-07-27 09:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by thefunofitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have insecurities, and they sense this...You have to be cool with who you are. But who you are is something which is desirable by women..or in your case highschool girls. Remeber in this day and age, your generation is media crazy. So you would have to be just as "Hot" as the guys on TV...If you are really serious and want this...find a older female cousin and tell her to make you into a GOD...now BECAREFUL...watch what you wish for, because you might get it....Sometimes you will find NO attention is much better than TOO much...let me know how things work out....
2006-07-27 16:19:29 · answer #2 · answered by bigdaddy_longstroke_2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you...lol. This is just how teenagers act. You sound like a nice guy who's looking for a nice girl. But most teens your age aren't looking for a girlfriend or boyfriend, they are more focused on their friends and having fun. Don't take it so seriously. You will get a girlfriend soon enough but I know how hard it is to wait. Good call to ask girls out...here's a tip, though. If you haven't already done so, get to be friends with a girl first, get to know her and see if there is mutual interest before you ask her to be your girlfriend. Or, don't ask her to be your girlfriend at all, just ask her out to hang out with some of your mutual friends. Girls like that....very casual.
2006-07-27 16:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by operamemartexpo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Having a gf is not the most important thing in life.....don't worry you will get one. for now concentrate on more important things. Seriously........you ain't gonna die virgin.....i'm sure.
2006-07-27 16:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by sreemoyee b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient...things like this take time..Sure it wont fall in your lap.Unless your lucky:) but dont act desperate, i dont think girls like that..not saying you do act that way,but dont be discouraged maybe your better off single!!!!
2006-07-27 16:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dane N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
awww that sweet i would date u but i dnt kno u do u like blondes
2006-07-27 16:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by tjcafootballplayanumber74 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u if not meet the right person thats why.
2006-07-27 16:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Angel. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋