i mean i kinda get the idea. if he follows me around all the time,and sits by me instead of his friends and out of know where he starts hugging me goodbye. he comes up to me even when he has nothing to talk about! his friends told me they think i should go out with him. i mean i kinda like him but i like his brother more and i dont want to hurt the guy that likes me! my sister went out with the guy that likes me, i asked her if it was ok that i would ever go out with him she said go for it cause she dosen't have any feelings what so ever, and i mean i just don't know what to do! his brother is way smarter than him and i like him more! please help!!
2006-07-27 09:08:21 · 5 answers · asked by blondie14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i bet thats really tough..but since you have your friends (girls) and if you trust them. they should be the ones helping you out. see if this guys brother likes you in the first place. cause if you dont find out and then ask him out and it could go very wrong. but if he doesnt like you. i would go for the guy that likes you. you might have lotz in comman with the guy or even more. the detail you saying about what the guy does yea girl he does like you.
2006-07-27 09:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Whitney W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Child: I am a guy, an old guy, so maybe I shouldn't even be here but I am so here goes.
Right now, you may be the most confused person I have read on this site today. I want you to settle down, breath deeply, and relax. Now reread your question. Does that give you an indication of how confused you seem to me? Why don't you take a day to decide exactly what you want from us and come back tomorrow and try again.
2006-07-27 16:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so what if the guy likes you.. I mean thats good for you and all i mean it gives you a confidence that lets face it we all need... but like i was saying just because he likes you doesnt mean you have to like him. if you want his brother then go for his brother.. if you feel like you cant get his brother for some reason then oh well he isnt the guy for you because if you ever got with this guy and you didnt feel comfertable with him right away then it will never work out... but trust me let him like you, dont be mean, and if he asks you out just tell him " i see us more as friends" he will get the point... hope i helped.
2006-07-27 16:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmy E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart if u love him go out with him but don't give into peer preasure
2006-07-27 16:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes eyecontact with you for more than a few seconds...
he likes you
2006-07-27 16:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by RomanGOD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋