I asked my guy last nite while we were in the middle of IT, if he liked it when i talked dirty to him....he paused and seemed a little shy about it before he said "yeah sometimes"
what does that mean? did i potentially offend him by talking dirty? ( idont talk too bad, just a few little kinky things here and there, it turns me on, does it not turn him on?
2006-07-27 09:02:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I have found this to be true. When you try to have a conversation in the middle of "doing it", it kills the mood completely! Just do it from now on. Just say or do whatever you want to. Don't worry if he likes it or not. He'll tell you when he's done. Sometimes I think when women do something different in bed, they like it no matter what it is.
2006-07-27 09:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I would probe a bit deeper into the topic, (no pun intended...lol). Ask him what he meant by that so you know what to avoid next time and what he loves and cant get enough of. Sometimes men wont communicate if you don't probe, and no one here really will know exactly what he was thinking. Make sure you approach him with, "Honey, I want to make you feel really good, and I need to know what turns you on the most," then question about what the "Sometimes" meant. He will let you know if you ask, don't let him leave you hanging on an answer. (I hate when men try that one on me...)
Good luck and I hope this helps!
2006-07-27 09:08:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to disagree with most of these people. In general, yes, guys love a little dirty talk, but with his reaction, it sounds like he's a little uncomfortable with it. What you need to do, is ask him about it when you aren't doing anything sexual. Best way to get honest answers. Never in the middle of it.
2006-07-27 09:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping talking dirty. 9 out of 10 guys like it.
2006-07-27 09:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by 7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like it. I have noticed some women don't always reciprocate at first but want me to continue. In time, they join in.
I suspect it is hard for a woman to be TOO kinky for her man. He'll come around.
2006-07-27 14:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by CallMeDigitalBob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't offend him. He's just shy about it because you're probably a clean-cut girl, and it sort of weirds him out when you talk dirty like that. Either that, or he does like it but he's afraid to admit to it because he's the clean-cut one in the relationship.
2006-07-27 09:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just caught him off guard. It was a little odd for me the first time but it is very much a turn on!
2006-07-27 09:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Shaggy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes it but is shy about it. come to think of it, if a man loves it too much it can mean he doesn't respect his wife i think, why would a man feel good if his wife degrades herself so much but men like to feel dominant and overpowering. Depending on the specific talks you say definitely.
2006-07-27 09:19:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wayne C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about his response. I'd ask him again in normal conversation and ask him why he responded the way he did. Just get it out in the open.
2006-07-27 09:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes just embarrassed... some guys are weird like that... but then again alot of guys like it when u talk dirty...
2006-07-27 09:07:09 · answer #10 · answered by Aj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋