2006-07-27 08:50:59 · 84 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
Let him go! So long as you allowed to go on a boozy girl day out sometime! It's gotta work both ways!
2006-07-27 08:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes everyone needs their freedom. If you try to take away from his freedom he may accuse you of "smothering" him, and this is a dangerous game that most always ends in a split. Give him his freedom, but expect that the next time you wish to go out on a boozy bender with the girls, (which lets admit, you deserve every now and again,) then he should NOT try to stop you.
I hope this helps you and good luck!
2006-07-27 08:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think it is correct behavior for a difficult world filled with restraints save for the fact that one must consider the individual's character and what he may do out on this bender and with who and to whom. If it just a boozy bender than OK but if it is to lead to all sorts of sordid behavior and the hurting of others and the said boozer in question well than hell I think the person should be careful as booze is at times a really bad trip.
2006-07-27 08:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would want him to be just as lenient as he is for you. Its most important that if you don't condone it, that you let him know how you feel. Don't make a big deal out of it though. Guys actually silently appreciate little things like that... chances are you will see him saying thank you in some form or another down the road. Giving someone freedom to go out and have fun with their friends makes your relationship stronger once you realize they weren't there to spend it with you. If you truly don't trust him on the cruise, I would reconsider your relationship.
2006-07-27 08:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Brendan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as it doesnt become a habit or a addiction, then there is no problem letting him out on the town.
Every guy needs to be out on his own with his buddies and get drunk once in a while. But if you dont let him out and about once in a while then things will start to go stale or he will get very irritating around the house. I speak from experience...
He needs his freedom (even if it is getting boozed up once in a while with "the guys")
2006-07-27 08:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a tricky one!!I think once in a while is ok but not every weekend.I suppose they need to hang out with their pals sometimes and still want to feel like one of the lads even tho they`ve got wife/girlfriend,and so long as there`s trust there then i dont think there`s anything to worry about.
2006-07-28 01:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitely not. If he's anything like my husband, he'll be home by 9pm, unable to stand and professing his undying love. Besides, I like my boozy days/nights out too!!
2006-08-04 07:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Candy Shop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he is an alchoholic or if he is given to turning violent and paying it off on you. Otherwise its one of those "needs" that society works into people.
Just as you need time with your friends, he needs time with his mates.
Trying to stop him going out with his friends every so often as he did before meeting you before would end up breaking into your relationship.
If you see that those outings are bad for him, you need to discuss it with him WHEN HE IS SOBER! My former girlfriend had (and still has) a problem drinking. She sails over her limit and becomes someone else who doesn't realize that things she says thinking they are sharp and witty are actually cutting and hurtful. Trying to help her realize there was a problem ended up destroying the relationship.
2006-07-27 10:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by NotsoaNonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine if it's not a recurring thing. Every now and then men and women for that matter need to cut loose. As long as he isn't doing anything wrong (obviously I mean hurting people or cheating) during the event than there is no need to worry.
2006-07-27 08:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was a real man darlin you wouldnt be "letting" him go on a bender, he would go because he is entitled to, just like you are..
get a grip if you have no trust whats the point in being together!!
2006-07-27 21:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by missnikid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋