why is life so hard?

Answer 1

to build character. whatever doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger.

Answer 2

People are brought into this world with different levels of difficulties to overcome. Such as Our blessings of, or lack thereof, of Our Families, the amount of Love we are given, the compassion we are shown, and Caring given by Our Parents, and Others, to us. Then there is the matter of finances. Some have it so much harder than others. Like My Mom had a harder life than I, and I had a harder life than My Children. When You know what it is like to do without, then We learn to appreciate what We have. That is why Children of Rich Parents, are spoiled, and do not take care of, or appreciate what they have, unless They have been raised to respect, work for, and appreciate Their blessings. You have a legitimate question, and don't listen to the non- thought out, and ugly answers.

People say get an education, that is great, unless You do not have the funds, car, or the availability to do so. The rent could be due, water turned off, car needs repair, and the Children are hungry.

So Yes life can be hard, and I have been there, and I know what it is like to do without, and it made Me stronger, and fight harder. Thank God, that was a very long time ago, but i still remember, and can have compassion for those who are still struggling.
Each complication We face in life, is to teach us something. Even though we are so tired, and don't feel like We have time in the midst of Our turmoil, to even think straight enough, to even try to find the lesson. And it is true that, that which doesn't kill us, only makes us stronger. We do learn from past experiences, and life will get better. You fight tooth and nail, so that You can see the light at the end of the tunnel. You are stronger than You think. Just turn that sadness into anger, and take one step at a time, and fight, to cross that finish line. The finish line to a better life, and happiness. Surround Yourself with good People, positive people, and most of all turn to God. God can do more than anyone, anywhere. I have prayed for You, and I have faith that Your life will get better.

Best Wishes, and God Bless

Answer 3

Life is only hard if you make it hard, think of the problems you had when you were 5 years old. Do they seem so hard now? Its all a matter of how you look at things.

Answer 4

it's only hard if you're trapped inside. try to see it from "outside the box" and you'll realize that life's just a joke to pass the time with - so you might as well have fun at it, let the bad stuff roll off you and take the good as it comes.

and watch Monty Python's The Life of Brian. listen to the last song of the movie. that song changed more lives than you'd ever believe.

hope you start feeling better soon !!

Answer 5

Life is never hard or easy. It is a just matter of thought. When things don't go our way, its hard. And when its as what we wished its easy. Don't take it too much to your heart - Let it pass.

Answer 6

Life is hard. If it wasn't we'd think we were in heaven, right? Sometimes it really sucks (like your lover dies, kids reject your teachings, no dough, sick, etc., etc.) "This too will pass". "Tomorrow's another day." These things are true even if you're not in the mood to hear them. Learn to enjoy the simple things in life and try to count your blessings.

Answer 7

go outside get some sun and exercise stay away from fast food and life will get a little better

Answer 8

Because the people that give up make it easier for the people that don't to succeed, as well as have someone to laugh at.

Answer 9

Life can be what you make of it, and of course there is lesson to be learned from them also, It's what we learn from them that makes us stronger.

Answer 10

because u make it hard...a dur da dur dur dur, either that or you don't know how to live, either way, you better fix it or you'll be depressed for life!