i love my daughters so much it makes me want to cry sometimes..(2 girls who are 7 and 5), i cannot believe i made these beautiful human beings.
some of you cynics may be vomiting in your buckets now or just be sucking the air through your teeth or raising your eyes to the ceiling!
people always say we dont 'own' our children we are merely looking after them..what do you think???
2006-07-27 08:29:32 · 31 answers · asked by *prettyinpink* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR ANSWERS. IT WAS VERY HARD CHOOSING THE BEST ANSWER AND I WISH I COULD HAVE GIVEN IT TO MANY OF YOU. I AM SO GLAD I WAS NOT MADE TO FEEL ABNORMAL FOR THE LOVE I HAVE FOR MY CHILDREN. ALL THE BEST TO ALL OF YOU.
2006-07-28 20:41:11 · update #1
I believe they chose you to be their parents. They sound like they made the right choice.
2006-07-27 08:33:38 · answer #1 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you own them nor are you just looking after them. This is a human being that you have created. You are know loving them, caring for them, and doing your best to shape them into the best human beings possible. There is a bond between mother and child that can not be broken. You love your children, you care for them. Don't let anyone make you feel like loving your children is wrong.
2006-07-27 08:34:10 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe how ever much you love someone, You dont no the meaning of REAL love untill you have had a child...... BEST thing in the world,,, I love my daughter more than i could ever explain,,, & it just hurts SOOO much when you hear about these people who hurt their kids... They dont no how lucky they are to of been blessed with them...it took 5yrs for me to get preg,She was wanted SO much..(&still is of course)
I do believe that our children choose their parents.... We dont own them,we're here to guide them (although as they go thru their teenage yrs,make sure they think we own them...dont what any trouble there!!)
2006-07-27 09:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by friendly chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong in that, its a wonderful thing to make and mould another human being, and loving the is so special, not all kids have such loving moms, so all power to you.
They may all fly the nest in later years but most are never too far away from a mom who loves them.
2006-07-27 22:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by DOC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a mom o two too. and i know exactly how u feel. u dont know true love until u have a child. the joy when they hug u is like nothing else in the world. being a mother is the greatest joy. and no dont know until they r a parent. having kids is the best thing i ahve ever done and even i look at them and cant believe hoe they came from me.
2006-07-27 08:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have one child i named her lily why because when she was born she was so beautiful like a flower just starting to blossom so she is my little lily flower i feel that way to like crying i sometimes think of the wonder of it all this little being who is so reliant yet so strong and a carbon copy of me and her dad its amazing and the best thing in the world i think we dont own anything truly but if it belongs to you if you set it free it will return since my baby isnt old enough to leave yet i can look at her in wonder for many years to come i hope and prey when she does leave me she will come home again if you are beautiful inside then believe you made these girls beauty is inside and shines out i think you sound like a great mum and wish you happy times with your kids its normal to feel these strong overpowering emmotions so you carry on and do it
2006-07-27 10:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by LINDSEY C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only one that feels like that, I also have two daughters mine are 14 and 9. I still look at them and say my goodness I made you "with the Donner of course lol"
Our kids are ours to look after and guide into adult hood and when they reach adult hood we are still there for them so I guess we are not just here to look after them we are here for them for life.
You think its great now wait till they get to teens, its even better. Hard work but all part of having kids.
As tony says their gggggggggggggggreat!!!!!
2006-07-27 20:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by ooooh look @ me, lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe they are God's children, and he has given them to us to look after and take care of them. They are a blessing from him. When it comes time for them to move away to college or whatever, we should let them go and pray the best for them. B/c in the end we do not own them, they are their own person.
2006-07-27 08:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont own them because in an instant they can be takin away from you and they do leave when they get older love them while you have them but the only thing you can do is love them and hope they make the right decisions
2006-07-27 08:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by chaos_theory_1991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its great you love your children so much. but get back to me when they are teenagers i would to hear what you think than. as for now enjoy them. they grow up so fast. i have a son who is 20 and will be moving out of the house next year for the first time.
2006-07-27 08:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are gifts from God. We are merely looking after them, training them, loving them, trying to teach them to be healthy individuals. It can be so hard, and so very rewarding! I have 2 dd's, 10 and 6. I look at them at amazement that God has trusted me with those two little lives. Cherish them. Just my thoughts........
2006-07-27 08:34:32 · answer #11 · answered by not at home 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋