What is 1 thing you hate about one of your in laws.?

Question

I know its hard to think of only one but I am just curious to hear your response.

Answer 1

I hate that they are rich and "upity" about everything...they don't know what it's like to be poor or even middle class

Answer 2

My sisters husband has a half sister who is a fake, hypocritical, judgemntal, snotty b*tch, who thinks it's more important to have material items and oppressive debt than to have morals.
I was fine with all of her crappy personal traits until she snubbed my sister.
My niece is Autistic and the sister in law championed this whole therapy thing to "fix" my niece. She acted like my niece was a charity case, collected the money for the therapy, and offered to have my sister stay with her because my sister lives nowhere near a facility where this therapy was offered.
She let my sister stay for two days before she and her a**hole husband basically told her that she was a horrible parent, and they didn't feel like they could continue to let her and her daughters stay there because one of the kids might drown in their pool. As if to say my sister was too stupid to keep her kids from drowning. So they offered up some crappy roach infested hotel, and honestly expected my sister to be grateful for their charity.
At Christmas the b*tch bought matching pajamas for all of the kids in the family so that she could get a picture of all of them in matching p.j.'s and purposely excluded my obviously highly contagious leprous niece. She's a real psuedo-christian piece of crap.
She is the only person in my whole family that I have any problem with, so it isn't hard to pick just one, she's it!

Answer 3

One set--their complete inability to make a plan or inform me of their schedule. They are apparently the only people in the world who are busy...much too busy to look at a calendar and commit to a date/time even for major events. They can't even call from the car and give us a heads up that they are pulling in to town. Much too busy for that. (roll eyes)

The other set--she is really manipulative. every now and then I get played before I realize what has happened. I'm pretty easy going as far as ILs go and if she'd just be honest w/me about what she wants/needs most of the time I can & will accomodate her.

Answer 4

I try not to hate anyone, I found it puzzling that I needed to be accepted into their family, and there seemed to be a question whether our children would be worthy to be included into the family tree ? Somehow, I did not think much about it and was just too busy lovingly raising the two girls I had. Children are a blessing from God, that was what was important .

Answer 5

My mother-in-law didn't even like me until my husband died. Since he was an only child and I am the only one left, I am now a wonderful daughter-in-law after she treated me like garbage for over 25 years. It's amazing how much I improved overnight!

Answer 6

Hate is such a strong word. Perhaps dislike is a better way of putting it. The way I look at it is we don't choose that part of our family but it is a part of our spouses family and you have to find a way to make the best of it.

Answer 7

not my real in laws but my bf of five years has a sister who isnt afraid to ask for something....she is so lazy she asks everyone for at least a favor a day....I usually get stuck helping her daughter do her monthly "family" projects for school....or if she needs money or a ride because she doesnt have any gas in her car....she just aint afraid to ask for anything....and I am too nice to say no...

Answer 8

i hate the fact that my ex husband's mother was a self proclaimed hypochondriac who whinnied about everything but never did anything (a quality that was passed on to her son) and forgot to cut the cord before she left the freaking hospital

Answer 9

my fiance's cousin really seems to hate me even though we used to be the best of friends. I have done nothing to her and she is snotty to me and pretends like we're don't even know each other on a personal level ( we work together) and I just want to shake her and say SANDY GET OVER YOURSELF!

Answer 10

My sister-in-law has no sense of timing. She tends to believe we have nothing else to do beside come out to see her, chat for thirty minutes, and THEN do what we set out to do. I've come to believe that you should "get in, get it done, and get out" -- but many members of my wife's family don't grasp this. I understand being laid back, but I don't understand why we come out to see someone if they don't want help with something right then!

And that's one.