It is entirely possible that you have a low self-esteem. And this is a viscious cycle of you feeling bad about yourself, in general which makes you find faults in yourself that do not exist. Then, those faults cause you to feel worse about yourself. This can be a very serious condition.
Assuming that "13" was your age, you need to let your parents know how you feel. You need to seek treatment for Anorexia. (click on the link, below for online information.) Anorexia is often a symptom of a larger problem. It is a way for someone to "take control" over one aspect of their life, when deep down they feel that they have no control over things happening to them.
Ask for help. Anorexia can kill.
2006-07-27 08:33:06
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answered by SR 2
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You are 13 years old? Honey, that's called developing a figure. Over the next year you'll feel that way but its just becausee you are no longer a kid and your going to get a bit of a belly, some weight on your hips, and boobs. Its normal.
However, if you keep feeling like this you should talk to your mom, school nurse, an aunt or a teacher.
It''s the way anorexics get started and some of them starve themselves to death. Even right before they die, when they are too skinny to live anymore, they still think they are fat.
2006-07-27 15:28:09
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answered by K M 4
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The reason why you feel fat clearly has nothing to do with being fat; you know that because you know you are underweight.
So the feeling is something irrational, and therefore all the more frightening. I would not normally recommend you go to a shrink, because I don't like them myself, but you need some sort of professional. Your MD would be the place to start. They know about teenage girls and anorexia, and probably can help you. Overeaters Anonymous can also help you, but you will have to be patient with the members who may resent you for being skinny. We each fight the fat feeling in our own way. You need to fight it by acknowledging that you are not, in fact, fat. I had to fight it by acknowledging that I was, and that I had to do something about it. When I entered OA, I weighed about 300 lbs.
2006-07-27 15:29:25
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answered by auntb93again 7
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Get help. In the meantime eat a sandwich. Love yourself to the point were you can accept yourself and not care what everybody else thinks.
2006-07-27 15:27:02
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answered by El Teke 4
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hi that is reallyyyyy bad. just say to yourself whenever you look in the mirror, i am NOT fat i am skinny and i am going to eat! it helps, i was like that too for a few months
2006-07-28 10:32:02
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answered by Anonymous
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evryone always feels they are fat when they are not. Evryone always want to be skinnier, you just have to get used to your body.
What your feeling my be "bloated", try taking DIUREX, it helps flush water weight from your body which is what makes you feel so heavy.
2006-07-27 15:26:29
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answered by Anonymous
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because you are ANOREXIC. Go see a doctor
2006-07-27 15:25:14
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answered by Anonymous
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