I am 26 years old and I have amother who just want stop talking about me. Talk about me like I am not her child and I am nothing. I know I have made mistakes. It's beacuse the lack of knowledge way I was growing up and that way we need a mother to come in at and help us understand somethings.
Now she has hurt me like never before. I trying to do the right things to have something. I am in school, I go to church. and I trying to live holy.
The one things that hurts the much is that she has my child and she has turn him against me. He is ten. And I haven't seem him in 6 months. People on the streets is coming back telling me things and my husband.
I have done a 360 in my life, but it seem like they hate me for doing the right thing. I cry everynight. I trying to be strong. I never done a thing so bad to my mother. I hurting because there are may thing I haven't share. I am not trying to call myself innoccent not by any means. I want to be a mother to
2006-07-27 08:17:48 · 5 answers · asked by SHEILA D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
be a mother to my son. but all odds are against me. somebody help? I hurting i want a chance to me a mother to my son. a good mother.
2006-07-27 08:21:12 · update #1
I'm very sorry to hear about your problems. We don't know why your mother has your child or why you haven't seen him in six months. That really raises some questions. Maybe there are some real reasons your own mother turned your son against you.
About the only thing I can think of is that you need to convince a judge or child protective services that you are a fit mother and able to provide a safe, drug free environment for the child. To them, actions speak much louder than words. You have to have a stable income and home for a period of time before they will even listen.
2006-07-27 08:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Wascal Wabbit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna chalk up all the spelling errors up to you being upset. But back to the subject... your mother is probably treating this way b/c she's holding a grudge. your life was so out of control you dont even have your child. There is gonna be resentment and anamocity towards you for a while. But definetly dont stop doing what your doing. Your son will come around... but you not making an effort to see him for the last 6 mos. will def. make it harder to build a relationship with him again. You should try seeking visitation rights or partial custody. So just b/c you think your doing everything right there's always more you can do. and right now the most important thing is getting your son back. you can deal with mom later.
2006-07-27 15:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Capricorn82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is sit down and have a talk. tell her how it makes you feel whan she does that. but you want to be a mother, so you need to treat your child your way. and not the way your mother does. you need to take charge and tell her that he is your child, and don't let her take control of the path you want to take. take back your child and tell him who his mother is. To me it seems that your mother has no right in law to take care of him. you do what you think is right. take care
2006-07-27 15:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, you poor thing. well you should get your son back. why is he with your mom? just explain to her how you feel. your doing the right thing hun. just keep trying. you'll be okay. you'll be saved.
2006-07-27 15:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do whatever you think is right and dont worry about her its easy ignore her and if you want move to a different state!
2006-07-27 15:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋