I was engaded once to a guy and we broke up and now im in a new relationship,but the first guy still loves me and wants to get engaged,i dont love him any more but i dont want to hurt him What should I do?
2006-07-27 08:13:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marry them both.
2006-07-27 08:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Try You 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its difficult when theres a connection there and you dont want to hur the person, not that we would ever consider hurting some one on purpose, but, just like, let him go. tell him that things didnt work out(dont apologize for that fact) and that yu moved on now and you would be so happy if he could just do the same. as with other things, if you hint, the guy may not get it. talk to hm about it. make sure you let ur current bf know so that if anything goes wrong, like the guy freaks out and you hug and a story comes out, you're covered.
2006-07-27 21:25:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre going to have to tell him you dont love him anymore and stay with the one you love
2006-07-27 08:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what you want. what your heart wants. you dont love guy # 1 then tell him that it was over when it ended. its done. if he wants to be friends then leave it at that, if he wants more then you tell him that he should go. back off...whatever. you're in a relationship with another and he needs to understand and respect that. (as thst crappy saying goes...if he loves you he'll let you go)
2006-07-27 09:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him that ur feelinghave changed and that u r in a different relateionship now and if he gets down tell him he well find another girl and then list off so somethings he was good at in ur relatioship
2006-07-27 08:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love one of the guys, tell them, it'll change their life forever. but if you don't love one guy, you're going to have to tell him. he can't go on forever thinking you love him if you really don't.
2006-07-27 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by *~*CrossCountryStar*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you have to tell him he'll be ok dont string him along i know it hurts like hell
2006-07-27 08:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont love him
2006-07-27 08:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to hurt him, tell him the truth!!!
2006-07-27 08:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him.
2006-07-27 08:16:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋