ok...i live in az and the girl im going out with lives in virginia. she was suposed to come out here for the summer but she hasnt got the money yet to come out here. i am getting my driversliscense in about six monthsand ill be aloud to drive there when ever im not in school and she will be here for almost all of the school year
help me...what should i do?
im 16 almost 17( less than a month)
2006-07-27 08:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do is to just hang in there. long distance relationships are hard to deal with, but in your case, your gf will hopefully visit u in az. as long as u 2 love each other and trust each other, you should be fine in a long distance relationship. talk to her as much as possible, even if u dont get to hear her voice or see her, it always makes things a little easier. i havent seen my bf in 3weeks, but the love grows more and more everyday. sometimes you need to spend time away from the one u love, so that way u wont get sick of each other and youll appreciate each other a lot more. be strong, as long as u love each other, everything will turn out just fine.
2006-07-27 08:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, first of all, I was in Arizona once in August, and it was 117 degrees hot, and I don't know how anyone can think about ANYTHNG except keeping cool.....
but, of course, what should you do? Well, she is on the other side of the country, and you can't drive there yet, and she has no money to fly to see you.....
maybe, and I'm sure you are doing this, continue e-mailing each other, and keep the lines of communication going, but also keep yourself in the social world with your friends....and when you get your license, go and see her......keeping in mind that the highways and interstates leading that direction are just crazy, and full of looney drivers..and you will be fairly new at it...
what I'm saying is, whatever happens, let it be.......and if you meet someone closer, say in your own hometown, don't be blind to her, keep an open mind, and when you do have your license, and get to drive to see your sweetie back east, don't be a bit surprised if she hasn't taken the same advice!!
good luck, and be safe!
2006-07-27 15:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get agirl that is closer to you.
i had a b/f that lived in florida and i live in NM we didnt see eachother in a long time so we called it off then i met this other guy in Colorado so i hooked up with him that didnt last long because his mom didnt like the idea of him dating a person out of state.
well i hope you make a wise choice.
2006-07-27 15:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by brandy625 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wonderful to be committed to the person you love however a long distance relationship is not recomended. you have so many years ahead of you. well if you work you can send for like pay half on a train ticket or bus ticket and once she gets there she is all yours
2006-07-27 15:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by lawyer girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...you should totally get a new girl friend that lives close to you im mean serioulsy thats rediculous
2006-07-27 15:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if u really like this girl, go and meet her. what else can u do?
or if there's another girl who's closer, go with her!
2006-07-27 15:13:02 · answer #6 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a closer girl
2006-07-27 15:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by ibrushallday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a girl in your own area --- she can't afford the travel expenses and it'll be hard for you to do it too ---
2006-07-27 15:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋