But then when we are by ourselves, he couldn't be sweeter. I am i over-reacting to the whole thing or should I do something about it?
2006-07-27 08:07:08 · 6 answers · asked by *~*CrossCountryStar*~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not comfortable standing up for you in person yet or something. Or he likes your friends so he's keeping his mouth shut. OR everythign he says to you alone is an act to get some action. Dunno.
2006-07-27 08:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello *~*CrossCountryStar,
Maybe if you want to tell your boyfriend something, you should tell him yourself and not do it through your other friends. Friends have a way of getting a guy defensive, where if you were just honest with him, he would probably respect that.
A guy makes it a habit of ignoring his girlfriend's friends, or at least, he should. There's a whole jealousy thing going on in that dynamic. And, a gentleman doesn't discuss his girlfriend with others. It's you two that's having the relationship, not your friends. Leave them out of it.
--Rick
2006-07-27 15:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tend to be very private with their emotions. Society generally places a lot more pressure on males to appear 'strong' and 'manly'. Unfortunately, many interpret being masculine as not expressing deep feelings such of love or intense affection.
Don't worry :). It's very likely that your boyfriend is simply keeping his feelings under 'lock and key' for reasons that have little to do with his love for you. Perhaps you could interpret his willingness to express his emotions to you privately as a reflection of the genuineness of his love and a unique display of trust on his part :).
Take care.
2006-07-27 15:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by treznorfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what do want him to do?Jump up and down with joy, say oh she's just terriffic and wonderful. What. As long as they're not saying negative things and he doesn't need to defend you, why does he have to say anything at all, except answer the question if there is one............no????
2006-07-27 15:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
over reacting he is just a guy don't hate him for that.....
2006-07-27 15:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he doesnt like your friends are they bitches?
2006-07-27 15:11:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋