What can i do.. i know my man loves me, because we have been together for 4 years and just move in with each other friday.. i am so happy. he has always been there for me and my 3 kids. my problem is now that we live together for 6 days, he don't want to have sex with me.. i don't understand we have a 7 room house and enough of space from the kids, to enjoy hot sex. does anyone know why he is giving me any.. thanks.
2006-07-27 07:53:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't believe he is cheating, because why would he take the risk to move in with me & my kids..
2006-07-27 08:03:18 · update #1
I have recently experienced this problem myself. Moving in with someone, even after years of dating, will change a relationship. When you live together, you don't really get a chance to miss each other. Moving is also a very hard experience if you haven't done it too often. He may be worn out from moving or he may also be uncomfortable having sex in a new place and is just waiting to adjust. I really doubt he is cheating on you since this happens to most couples. It's a proven fact that moving in together is a major strain on both people and that is when the relationship will be tested, it will either make it or break it. If you really want to have sex, take control. While he is sitting around or in the middle of something (not to important), go unzip his pants and start....doing your thing (blowjobs work the best). If he turns that down, there may be something wrong and the best thing you can do is talk to him. I wish you the best.
2006-07-27 08:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say my answer is from experience with this type of situation however, even though you feel there is plenty of room in the house to allow for some alone time, you're man may not be so secure. If he has never lived with children, he may need some time to adjust to having the pitter patter of little feet in the house. Keep in mind, he not only has to "impress" you but also become a role model for your children.
If you haven't already, schedule some time for just the two of you and ask him how he's adapting to the new living conditions and share your feelings without being accusatory. Many times, opening up lines of communication is all it takes...
Best of luck to you and your family :)
2006-07-27 15:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by greenfaerie32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That's a tough one. I think he think that he may feel a little uncomfortable with having kids around him all the time. He may not tell you, but I think that is what it is. My wife was like that for a little while until the kids were older. Just give him a little time. If it doesn't change, find a way to talk to him to see what's wrong. good luck
2006-07-27 15:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by twash77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he is afraid that your kids might walk into you while you are having sex. Or he isnt that comfortable yet with the new setting. Tease him a little and see how he reacts to it.. in time, he will ease up.
2006-07-27 17:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might need some time. Or this might be his way to tell you something. I know when something is bothering me about my girlfriend, i get distant and silent. And this leads to no sex. So ask him if theres anything you are doing thats bothering him.
2006-07-27 14:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by Really 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats unfortunate.
I know if I walked into the bedroom and my naked wife jumped up on me and said f#$% me like you did when we where 20 would work for me.
So maybe try that
2006-07-27 14:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by michael g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might going through a shock phrase right now. some times you just need to initiate the situation.
2006-07-27 14:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he dating another women?? is he having sex w/ another women?? is he gay?? well i dont know sorry good luck finding out
ps look through he stuff u might find something!!!
2006-07-27 15:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is tired, I think. Give him some time or somthing can turn him on.
2006-07-27 14:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by It's amazing?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he had surgery down there,let say enlargement.he just want to take time to heal.ask him.
2006-07-27 14:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by maamtcl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋