I have a long distance relationship and see my girlfriend one week out of every three months. We plan on getting married but I still have some issues with getting her to express herself. She is very shy but is slowly coming out. The only thing is she started this after I got her to open up sexually. Is it wrong that it started off with this theme? She has become more confident and I recently got her to understand that she is beautiful. We still have some issues since her parents and relatives have been putting her down since she was a kid. It is only until recently that she has become more independent. We also talk once or twice a week and it seems like every time we do it ends up being this theme. I don't know if it helps but she is a virgin. Really need another point of view on this so only serious answers. One last thing she is Mexican and lives in Mexico. I am from Mexican parents so both her and my parents are a little on the strict side, but they are still family.
2006-07-27 07:41:27 · 5 answers · asked by Bill F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure if I made this point across. I don’t want to have sex with this girl yet. I am waiting for it to be special, like marriage special. That’s not the question. The question is, is it wrong that this is the only way I have gotten her to open up to me? Is there something else I should try?
2006-07-27 08:14:35 · update #1
Patience, my friend. It's good that she is opening up, but you have to let her experience things at her pace. You made it this far; it wouldn't kill you to wait longer.
Continue to let her know how much you care for and love her. It is because of you constantly telling her that she is believing in herself. Keep it up.
A talk with her parents would be nice if they still are putting her down. If they don't know, let them know that you care a lot about her and love her and want a future with her...and let them know you don't appreciate them putting down on her.
Best of luck to you two.
2006-07-27 07:51:06 · answer #1 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 09:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you pressure her she will remember it forever. Remember: "women will forgive but never forget". Fuch your fist, flog the log and if you want this woman to be your faithful loving caring wife then take your time. What you do now will be remembered for the rest of your marriage.
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2006-07-27 07:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is waiting till you actaully marry her before she opens up sexually, so to speak, if she really is a virgin and isnt doing the pool guy on the side while you are away.,
2006-07-27 07:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by thale138 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your parents
2006-07-27 07:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋