if u thin ur gay can u stil meet a girl an date her than marry her an hav kids an be a dad a lot of people?

Question

on oter cuestons say that im to yung to be gay im 13 an anyway there rite caus i wan to be a dad my frend tommie an i an r moms were a a festaval las sunday an he an i got real sad whan we saw al the kids having fun wit there dads caus were only childs an only hav moms i thout id wan to be som kids dad to an play wit them lik i saw the dads doing i realy wan to be a dad sory bout the speling i try hard in schol but stil hav troubel spelin

Answer 1

omg of course you can that just means that you aren't gay if you marry a girl. and it istrue that you are too young to be gay!!!! i am younger than you and even i think that it is too early in our lives to decide wether we are straight or, well, not! i honestly think you should wait to decide if you are gay. but to really answer your question yes you can still date a girl.

Answer 2

You can if you want to . My dad did. Nowadays you have a lot more options and in 10 years or so when you are ready to have children, it will probably be even easier for gay or bisexual men, women, and couples to adopt or find surrogate parents for their babies. My oldest son is gay and if he ever chooses to have children, either biologically with a female friend or to adopt, he will make a great dad.
Being a parent has nothing to do with your sexuality. Most healthy parent-child relationships don't really depend much on the parents sex life. If they do, its not healthy, its weird.
If you are not sure if you are gay, don't worry, you will figure it out as time goes by. You have many, many years to enjoy as a sexual being, regardless of your orientation.Don't feel pressure to define your whole self at 13 years old. Some people do know if they are gay or straight very early on, others don't figure it out until they are very old. Just enjoy who you are, there is much more to you than just who you like to kiss.

Answer 3

You can but i think that you have not thou8ght about it... If you r gay then you do not love your wife. So you r going to have a kid and be actively gay and he will eventually be scarred. It is not that gay couples kids are scarred because there parents are gay they would be scarred because the kid would know that you did not truly love your mother. SO before you decide to have kids with a women be sure that you think about what yuou are really doing and make sure that you truly love the women you r going to have sex with... When you have a son be sure you tell him at a young age that you r gay so he accepts you befor you strike him win he is a kid... And be sure that you do not influence your kid in anyway to be gay or lesbian... If he is straigt dont try to change it.

Answer 4

I know men that are gay but before they came out they were married to a woman and have 4 children. I live in a highly gay/bi area but they did it out of love not just to impregnate women...take your time stay in school and just be yourself. I also know many people who do not have any children.....just think of the child support you'll save. Get a puppy 1st and see if you can take the responsibility. Also try spell check it will help you learn how to spell words correctly.....good luck

Answer 5

If you are gay, you technically can marry and have kids and be a great dad. However, you would probably not be very happy with that decision because you aren't with who you really want to be with. It is also not fair to marry a woman and not really want to be with her. Just so you know, you can be gay and adopt a child and still be a great dad.

Answer 6

You can get married and have kids if you want, but you will not be happy if you are gay - and it will not be fair on your wife. Lok what happened in Brokeback Mountain, it is a true reflection. Anyway - you will have more money if you don't have kids, and you can enjoy everyone elses without having the responsibility.

Answer 7

Wow.. I tried to read the question to understand your deep sensitive emotions but gave up on your language skills...
seriously if you want to get a good answer on such emotional subjects I'd say start with proper english....

if u've troubel with spellings.. may be start with academics.. no body will take an uneducated for a life partner...........

Answer 8

You can either adopt children or you can probably get a close friend to carry a baby for you. You don't have to marry a woman to have a baby if you are gay, there are other options.

Answer 9

Boy did you steer sparkling of a bullet. this is organic for a 24-year-previous to be bodily attracted to a progressed sixteen-year-previous, yet this: this is distinctive. This guy wasn't attracted to you as a individual or as a lover. He exchange into finding for somebody - I in basic terms approximately desire to assert some*element* - to fill the situation of spouse and mom. And it ought to be that he picked you and this lady out specifically with the aid of fact you have been youthful and, he was hoping, insecure sufficient to desire to dangle to a guy who wasn't sturdy for you with the aid of fact you enjoyed him. An insecure guy who's frightened of failure will sometimes specifically objective youthful women, offering them each thing he thinks women folk want - marriage, babies, help - with the intention to be certain they have not any reason to go away him. regrettably, it does not oftentimes artwork; the girl asserts her own character ultimately, yet this makes the guy bypass loopy and infrequently exchange into violently abusive. He sees this as her fault (if she did no longer act that way, he does no longer have become abusive), and because she's so youthful she's actual led to have self assurance it too, extraordinarily if he alternates abuse with being overly worrying approximately her ("see, i'm an incredible guy once you're no longer using me loopy. i'm no longer the abuser, i'm your sufferer, and you're inflicting your individual discomfort").

Answer 10

Gay guys can adopt. why live a lie...be happy, be a father and be with someone you LOVE