If your guy cheated on you and so you all broke up but then a week later he comes to you and says that hes changed and that he wont do it again and that he wants to be with you! Would you take him back???
2006-07-27 07:37:58 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't change in a week...not even in months. If you take him back, he'll know he can do pretty much anything to you and that you'll most likely take it.
You can find someone else who will not chose another lady over you.
2006-07-27 07:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that he can change in a week 1st of all. If he cheated once he'll probably do it again if you take him back to soon. Give it some time and tell him that you will think about it and call him. Don't give into him.
2006-07-27 07:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to say the right thing--harder to do. It would take some time for me to once again trust someone who has cheated. And depending on the relationship, it might not be worth the time, energy, and risk involved.
2006-07-27 07:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you look him in the eye everyday and wonder whether he was cheating again? Can you live with the worry of whether he's passing on all manner of diseases to you?
If you can - you're a bigger person than me. If not - I think you know the answer.
2006-07-27 07:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO my kids need to be cared for and one man is not worth it. even if it is the daddy. the man would never be allowed to be my man again. i say it that way cause i have been w/the same person 14 years and would not allow that to ruin my life over and over again and men will say sorry and go out the next week and do it again
2006-07-27 07:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he hasn't changed. He's realized his mistake but that doesn't mean it erases what he did.
If you love him and want to be with him, tell him that you can start over as friends. If he can earn your trust back you can start dating again in a few months. If he doesn't want to do that then he just wants to get back with you for "other" reasons, not because he's actually sorry.
2006-07-27 07:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Tiffany C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him to step...he just lost a damn good thing and relized too little too late.
Once a cheat always a cheat!
Even if you say you trust him after you take him back, you'll always have that thought in the back of your mind..."who's he with now?"
Not worth it trust me!!
2006-07-27 07:39:54 · answer #7 · answered by Juicy Fruit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup i take him back bcoz everyone cheat in this world. but somebody cheated say iam changed , never do this in my lifetime say means . iam sure .i forgive him and i take him back. depending on the relationship. see in this world we doing alot of bad things but God is forgiving us .like this we hv to give him a chance to prove him is good now
2006-07-27 07:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by neema s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was real real hurt for his action...hell no i wouldnt!
but if i didn't really care for what he did .. maybe!
AND heres a good one,
If you deep down think he will actually do this again (and dont lie to yourself) GO BACK WITH HIM, and cheat on him & you dump him!!! Get even.
thats my advice!
2006-07-27 07:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! You deserve better and if he didn't know that when he was with you before, he sure didn't learn it in a week! I know it's hard, but don't lower yourself to accept anything but the best from the man who is SUPPOSED to love you like no other!
2006-07-27 07:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by EarthAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋