Usually when i goto a party on campus or something there are like a couple of new girls that i will meet and they always wanna have sex... Should i like say no so i dont start looking like a man whore or should i just have lots of sex (protected of course)?
2006-07-27 07:35:59 · 37 answers · asked by aaylan58 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do wanna settle down eventually but i mean i dont really try all that much.. the girls like always hit on me and then it always ends in bed...
2006-07-27 07:45:40 · update #1
As long as you are honest with those you have sex with (that its just sex) and you are using protection, then do whatever you are comfortable with and all parties consent to. Just don't lead anyone on or allow them to think there is a budding relationship if you know that's not going to occur.
Keep it all honest and safe...and have a good time!
2006-07-27 07:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is fine as long as you aren't trying to hit on girls that aren't into sex all the time. Don't mislead anyone to think that you want a loving relationship if sex is the top priority.
Personaly, I wouldn't want to date someone who had sex with about every girl in their college. It will also make sex with your wife (if you ever have one) not as 'special' later on.
It could lead you to being a 'man whore' if every girl starts talking about it and it may make a real relationship hard to get later on if everyone knows that you have sex with any girl you see. Some girls like a guy that it more hard to get.
Depends on what you are after in life.
2006-07-27 07:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by flour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is horrible. Having all of this sex is fun now, but one day, you are going to find someone that you truly love, and she is not going to respect you in any way. I find it disgusting when I would meet men(before I was married) that would want to hook up just to find that he's been in other "places" if you know what I mean . Hard not to think about what kind of skanks was in his past and left behind all possibilities of a future for us. Don't you want to have some respect left when the right person comes along? Would you like to settle down with a loose girl? how could you think we think any different about you?
2006-07-27 07:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... let me tell ya a lil sumthin...condoms and **** don't always work..I know..me and my man used them..and they dont work...I now have a 10 month old son because of condoms...dont get me wrong..I love my son...but you are in college...I wanted to go to college...but cant now...or at least not until my son gets older.. so if I was you...when all those hoes around campus come around...I would tell them to keep their "Kitty Cages Closed" cuz tha last thing you want is to get a hoe pregnant and have to drop outta college and ****...cuz remember you cant turn a hoe into a housewife...and for the dude with the answer sayin have lots and lots of sex that is what college is about...no it isnt...college is for ppl that REALLY want to do something with their lives grow tha **** up!
2006-07-27 07:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's very wrong..Unless you like to feel like a whore and get a nasty STD you will live the rest of your life with because of your stupid choice to sex up every new girl u see or meet..U never know what a girl has in her underwear..Might be pretty but pretty infectious and you will never know...Now you answer your own question.
2006-07-27 07:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting. You do not understand that you are being abused. These women are predatory. If they said no, you would be shocked. You see, the sex you get is empty, and you are training yourself that sex means nothing, that even though it might be enjoyable, you can always go elsewhere for sex if your dates don't work out.
You Will have trouble developing real relationships this way.
2006-07-27 07:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your using protection and its consentual and understood that its just sex...no attachments...then GO for it.......Enjoy your clooege years...just dont do anything that may come back on you and affect your future.
oops..college years......see how well the money spent works...not sure if it was the sex or drugs...
2006-07-27 07:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by lisa46151 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever want to settle down cause some point of time you are going to get tired of that and want more
2006-07-27 07:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Shanita P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why settle for a sheep when you can have the flock my friend. Dont listen to the woman keep doing what you do.
2006-07-27 07:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your on the right track to get a STD. Condoms don't always work.
2006-07-27 07:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Digital Katana's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋